I have a problem.. - What should i do?

SuperSonicX · 09-30-2002, 05:27 PM

Well...its like this..i been going with this girl..online...for like 10 months now...got to know each other real well...and etc...i started to love this girl...cuz she seems like she really care's about me...and..I really care about her...i..never thought that...u could find love online..must ppl say online dating sucks ass...because u really dont see the person..or get to "really" know them...but i dont believe in that...its just another form of dating...but anyways...she told me that after she graduate's from high school..she wants for me to go to collage with her...but...i really wanted to go to a trade school...*and learn GFX Design..* in fact i never told her that...i dunno if i even CAN go to collage...i really love this girl...and i want to met her in person...what if i dont? Will that show that i dont care for her anymore?? I mean she wants to move to my location and go to shcool...so we can met...but..i really dont wanna go to collage...*if i can that is..* so..post what u think i should do and why...

And plz no flaming....

DARKPICCOLO · 09-30-2002, 05:46 PM

come on Sonic listen to what U R saying.......go to trade school land a good job.....make like a gagillion bucks then pay some model chick to go out with you

NO but seriously i had a problem simular to this one with a pen pal of mine. she lives quite a distance away but i thought we could make it work.. she said that she was going to move here after high school that way we could be togeter. but honastly i dont think thats what either of us wanted. I told her that she should think about her future first and thats what you should do bro......im not saying that you guys are not in love im just saying you cant jump head first into something like this......but thats just my opinion i dont know if it helped at all but i hope so

SuperSonicX · 09-30-2002, 05:52 PM

I know that but...i really care for this girl...even if it means puting myself behind for her..

DARKPICCOLO · 09-30-2002, 05:54 PM

well good luck to you on whatever you decide

Zanrel · 09-30-2002, 09:07 PM

Hey you should ask her for her pic, and you give her your pic.
Because I know alot of people who meets a person from internet, who thought they were in love but just fall apart because the exterior appearance didnt live to their expectations. Now I know appearance doesnt matter in true love, but it plays a difference to others and maybe to her as well as you. But if its your destiny to meet her, then go out to meet her.

Ludacris · 10-01-2002, 05:20 PM

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ost_uid0="SuperSonicX"]Well...its like this..i been going with this girl..online...for like 10 months now...got to know each other real well...and etc...i started to love this girl...cuz she seems like she really care's about me...and..I really care about her...i..never thought that...u could find love online..must ppl say online dating sucks ass...because u really dont see the person..or get to "really" know them...but i dont believe in that...its just another form of dating...but anyways...she told me that after she graduate's from high school..she wants for me to go to collage with her...but...i really wanted to go to a trade school...*and learn GFX Design..* in fact i never told her that...i dunno if i even CAN go to collage...i really love this girl...and i want to met her in person...what if i dont? Will that show that i dont care for her anymore?? I mean she wants to move to my location and go to shcool...so we can met...but..i really dont wanna go to collage...*if i can that is..* so..post what u think i should do and why...

And plz no flaming....[/quote]
My gurlfriend, I've met her on the net......she leaves far away from me(not that far I can still see her in week-ends) so we decided to meet at La Ronde(it's in montreal, Lots of rides)anyways.........I didn't wanted to be in danger lol so I went with some friends of mine and then I met her and she was really beautiful and we connected and we went out and when she had to leave I told her I loved her and we kissed(a passionate kiss, I'll never forget it lol).......I know i'm 15 but still.........but your case is more serious cuz U wanna give ur dream of becoming GFX designer(I don't know if U become a GFX Designer if U learn GFX design)........hey I'm maybe be young but the first thing that makes a relationship work is communication........U should tell her about your GFX plans......I'm sure she'll understand.......if she wants the best for U, she'll be ok with that........but dog don't blow your career plans away because of that........some sacrifice are worth it but some can really cost.......talk to her about it first and tell me (or us) how she reacted to it......

princevegetam · 10-01-2002, 06:06 PM

uh... ssx, i'm guessin you are talking about lara?

lol, i never knew you two had such a "serious" relationship, lol.

anyways, i always like giving out love advice(but i have no love life

).

first of all, you really need to drop your "bad habits". *cough*masturbating*cough*

and second, can you give us more info about yourself? like how old you are, your education. and give more info about lara. i can't come up with a solution without carefully analyzing your problem.

SuperSonicX · 10-01-2002, 06:24 PM

Masterbation?? Whats that? *hides* Well im 17..but i guess u could say 18 cuz im turning 18 this thursday.

Education?? High school!! As for my girl..i dont think she would like it if i gave out her info..so i wont say. Like i said..i want to go to a trade school...

princevegetam · 10-01-2002, 06:31 PM

LMAO!!!

okay, i'm guessin this IS lara. well, just make ABSOLUTELY sure that she feels the same way about you. and you should talk to her about this. i guess it's a pretty tough decision between the girl of your dreams and a successful future. there is a way to have both. and sry, i didn't know that you go to a "trade" school to learn gfx design(i'm not eactly sure where you came up with that). who said you needed to go to a trade school to learn gfx design? you can go to a college and learn gfx design there. and are you sure she would feel okay if you told us about the problems between you two?

Ludacris · 10-01-2002, 06:34 PM

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ost_uid0="SuperSonicX"]Masterbation?? Whats that? *hides* Well im 17..but i guess u could say 18 cuz im turning 18 this thursday.

Education?? High school!! As for my girl..i dont think she would like it if i gave out her info..so i wont say. Like i said..i want to go to a trade school...[/quote]
Then go to trade school.........if you tell her she'll understand.......are you scared of sumthin????

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09-30-2002, 05:46 PM	#2
DARKPICCOLO Senior Member Senior Member Join Date: Jul 2002 Posts: 502 Post Thanks / Like Thanks (Given): 0 Thanks (Received): 0 Likes (Given): 0 Likes (Received): 0 Dislikes (Given): 0 Dislikes (Received): 0 Points: 0 Mentioned: 0 Post(s) Tagged: 0 Thread(s) Quoted: 0 Post(s)	come on Sonic listen to what U R saying.......go to trade school land a good job.....make like a gagillion bucks then pay some model chick to go out with you NO but seriously i had a problem simular to this one with a pen pal of mine. she lives quite a distance away but i thought we could make it work.. she said that she was going to move here after high school that way we could be togeter. but honastly i dont think thats what either of us wanted. I told her that she should think about her future first and thats what you should do bro......im not saying that you guys are not in love im just saying you cant jump head first into something like this......but thats just my opinion i dont know if it helped at all but i hope so NEXT

09-30-2002, 09:07 PM	#5
Zanrel Senior Member Junior Member Join Date: Jul 2002 Posts: 144 Post Thanks / Like Thanks (Given): 0 Thanks (Received): 0 Likes (Given): 0 Likes (Received): 0 Dislikes (Given): 0 Dislikes (Received): 0 Points: 0 Mentioned: 0 Post(s) Tagged: 0 Thread(s) Quoted: 0 Post(s)	Hey you should ask her for her pic, and you give her your pic. Because I know alot of people who meets a person from internet, who thought they were in love but just fall apart because the exterior appearance didnt live to their expectations. Now I know appearance doesnt matter in true love, but it plays a difference to others and maybe to her as well as you. But if its your destiny to meet her, then go out to meet her. __________________ http://www.boomspeed.com/zanrel/Scene1.gif I am the best there is, I am the best there was, and I am the best that there will ever will be.

10-01-2002, 05:20 PM	#6
Ludacris Senior Member Senior Member Join Date: Jul 2002 Location: Montreal Posts: 4,935 Post Thanks / Like Thanks (Given): 0 Thanks (Received): 0 Likes (Given): 0 Likes (Received): 0 Dislikes (Given): 0 Dislikes (Received): 0 Points: 0 Mentioned: 0 Post(s) Tagged: 0 Thread(s) Quoted: 0 Post(s)	[quoteost_uid0="SuperSonicX"]Well...its like this..i been going with this girl..online...for like 10 months now...got to know each other real well...and etc...i started to love this girl...cuz she seems like she really care's about me...and..I really care about her...i..never thought that...u could find love online..must ppl say online dating sucks ass...because u really dont see the person..or get to "really" know them...but i dont believe in that...its just another form of dating...but anyways...she told me that after she graduate's from high school..she wants for me to go to collage with her...but...i really wanted to go to a trade school...and learn GFX Design.. in fact i never told her that...i dunno if i even CAN go to collage...i really love this girl...and i want to met her in person...what if i dont? Will that show that i dont care for her anymore?? I mean she wants to move to my location and go to shcool...so we can met...but..i really dont wanna go to collage...if i can that is.. so..post what u think i should do and why... And plz no flaming....[/quote] My gurlfriend, I've met her on the net......she leaves far away from me(not that far I can still see her in week-ends) so we decided to meet at La Ronde(it's in montreal, Lots of rides)anyways.........I didn't wanted to be in danger lol so I went with some friends of mine and then I met her and she was really beautiful and we connected and we went out and when she had to leave I told her I loved her and we kissed(a passionate kiss, I'll never forget it lol).......I know i'm 15 but still.........but your case is more serious cuz U wanna give ur dream of becoming GFX designer(I don't know if U become a GFX Designer if U learn GFX design)........hey I'm maybe be young but the first thing that makes a relationship work is communication........U should tell her about your GFX plans......I'm sure she'll understand.......if she wants the best for U, she'll be ok with that........but dog don't blow your career plans away because of that........some sacrifice are worth it but some can really cost.......talk to her about it first and tell me (or us) how she reacted to it...... __________________ Fighting Name: Darkludacris [quote:sig_uid]Corky is mine[/quote:sig_uid] [img:sig_uid]http://img78.photobucket.com/albums/v256/Darkludacris/Ludascorky.gif[/img:sig_uid]

10-01-2002, 06:06 PM	#7
princevegetam Senior Member Senior Member Join Date: Jan 2002 Location: Hell Posts: 1,690 Post Thanks / Like Thanks (Given): 0 Thanks (Received): 0 Likes (Given): 0 Likes (Received): 0 Dislikes (Given): 0 Dislikes (Received): 0 Points: 0 Mentioned: 0 Post(s) Tagged: 0 Thread(s) Quoted: 0 Post(s)	uh... ssx, i'm guessin you are talking about lara? lol, i never knew you two had such a "serious" relationship, lol. anyways, i always like giving out love advice(but i have no love life ). first of all, you really need to drop your "bad habits". coughmasturbatingcough and second, can you give us more info about yourself? like how old you are, your education. and give more info about lara. i can't come up with a solution without carefully analyzing your problem. __________________ [quote:sig_uid]the strong survive, and the weak just die...[/quote:sig_uid] http://www.boomspeed.com/ssjvegetam/Iori2.jpg

09-30-2002, 05:27 PM	#1
SuperSonicX Senior Member Senior Member Join Date: Jun 2002 Posts: 961 Post Thanks / Like Thanks (Given): 0 Thanks (Received): 0 Likes (Given): 0 Likes (Received): 0 Dislikes (Given): 0 Dislikes (Received): 0 Points: 0 Mentioned: 0 Post(s) Tagged: 0 Thread(s) Quoted: 0 Post(s)	Well...its like this..i been going with this girl..online...for like 10 months now...got to know each other real well...and etc...i started to love this girl...cuz she seems like she really care's about me...and..I really care about her...i..never thought that...u could find love online..must ppl say online dating sucks ass...because u really dont see the person..or get to "really" know them...but i dont believe in that...its just another form of dating...but anyways...she told me that after she graduate's from high school..she wants for me to go to collage with her...but...i really wanted to go to a trade school...and learn GFX Design.. in fact i never told her that...i dunno if i even CAN go to collage...i really love this girl...and i want to met her in person...what if i dont? Will that show that i dont care for her anymore?? I mean she wants to move to my location and go to shcool...so we can met...but..i really dont wanna go to collage...if i can that is.. so..post what u think i should do and why... And plz no flaming....

09-30-2002, 05:52 PM	#3
SuperSonicX Senior Member Senior Member Join Date: Jun 2002 Posts: 961 Post Thanks / Like Thanks (Given): 0 Thanks (Received): 0 Likes (Given): 0 Likes (Received): 0 Dislikes (Given): 0 Dislikes (Received): 0 Points: 0 Mentioned: 0 Post(s) Tagged: 0 Thread(s) Quoted: 0 Post(s)	I know that but...i really care for this girl...even if it means puting myself behind for her..

09-30-2002, 05:54 PM	#4
DARKPICCOLO Senior Member Senior Member Join Date: Jul 2002 Posts: 502 Post Thanks / Like Thanks (Given): 0 Thanks (Received): 0 Likes (Given): 0 Likes (Received): 0 Dislikes (Given): 0 Dislikes (Received): 0 Points: 0 Mentioned: 0 Post(s) Tagged: 0 Thread(s) Quoted: 0 Post(s)	well good luck to you on whatever you decide

10-01-2002, 06:24 PM	#8
SuperSonicX Senior Member Senior Member Join Date: Jun 2002 Posts: 961 Post Thanks / Like Thanks (Given): 0 Thanks (Received): 0 Likes (Given): 0 Likes (Received): 0 Dislikes (Given): 0 Dislikes (Received): 0 Points: 0 Mentioned: 0 Post(s) Tagged: 0 Thread(s) Quoted: 0 Post(s)	Masterbation?? Whats that? hides Well im 17..but i guess u could say 18 cuz im turning 18 this thursday. Education?? High school!! As for my girl..i dont think she would like it if i gave out her info..so i wont say. Like i said..i want to go to a trade school...

10-01-2002, 06:31 PM	#9
princevegetam Senior Member Senior Member Join Date: Jan 2002 Location: Hell Posts: 1,690 Post Thanks / Like Thanks (Given): 0 Thanks (Received): 0 Likes (Given): 0 Likes (Received): 0 Dislikes (Given): 0 Dislikes (Received): 0 Points: 0 Mentioned: 0 Post(s) Tagged: 0 Thread(s) Quoted: 0 Post(s)	LMAO!!! okay, i'm guessin this IS lara. well, just make ABSOLUTELY sure that she feels the same way about you. and you should talk to her about this. i guess it's a pretty tough decision between the girl of your dreams and a successful future. there is a way to have both. and sry, i didn't know that you go to a "trade" school to learn gfx design(i'm not eactly sure where you came up with that). who said you needed to go to a trade school to learn gfx design? you can go to a college and learn gfx design there. and are you sure she would feel okay if you told us about the problems between you two? __________________ [quote:sig_uid]the strong survive, and the weak just die...[/quote:sig_uid] http://www.boomspeed.com/ssjvegetam/Iori2.jpg

10-01-2002, 06:34 PM	#10
Ludacris Senior Member Senior Member Join Date: Jul 2002 Location: Montreal Posts: 4,935 Post Thanks / Like Thanks (Given): 0 Thanks (Received): 0 Likes (Given): 0 Likes (Received): 0 Dislikes (Given): 0 Dislikes (Received): 0 Points: 0 Mentioned: 0 Post(s) Tagged: 0 Thread(s) Quoted: 0 Post(s)	[quoteost_uid0="SuperSonicX"]Masterbation?? Whats that? hides Well im 17..but i guess u could say 18 cuz im turning 18 this thursday. Education?? High school!! As for my girl..i dont think she would like it if i gave out her info..so i wont say. Like i said..i want to go to a trade school...[/quote] Then go to trade school.........if you tell her she'll understand.......are you scared of sumthin???? __________________ Fighting Name: Darkludacris [quote:sig_uid]Corky is mine[/quote:sig_uid] [img:sig_uid]http://img78.photobucket.com/albums/v256/Darkludacris/Ludascorky.gif[/img:sig_uid]