What would you do if you..

blanka09 · 05-24-2005, 12:27 PM

Lol.. now forgive my initial laughter, but ladyy... you're just a few months older than my younger sister.. and if she were raped, the last place I'd want her to get any "advice" is an online forum filled with 75% of kids who are just entering puberty. And looking back at my biggie topic, I'd have to sayy everything adds up... but honestly, the signature thingy ?? I think you might be hanging up on the situation in the wrong scenario.

In all honesty, I don't know why a man would rape a 15 year old... but from what I've seen in life, I won't put it past some sick fools. What you SHOULD do is go to ur God (if you have one) and pray. You're 15, therefore you have the brain developed enough to search urself and find a reason as to why it happened. Whatever we face in life's a result of Karma. In the sense that what you get in life is a result of action/inactions you've taken in the past.

Kinda like the first rule of Alchemy, called equivalent trade.

After searching within urself and finding the reasons as to why it happened... and how you might have played a role (be it the way you dress, where you hang out, who you hang out and the likes) in the whole incident. If you're true to urself, you'll find out an answer. Correct that wrong loophole in ur life and move on.

Talk to ur parents about it... I can't imagine the pain I'd feel if I find out my sister or if I had a daughter and learnt she was raped. It'll tear them apart, so try and least assure them that you're okay and you're not going to kill urself anytime soon :biggrin: ... and I'm sure they'll have some advice for you. Finally don't go around publicly displaying this ID as one that's been raped. It doesn't help solve the problem... unfortunately, it brings a very bad label on u urself.

People would label you as being something/someone you aren't because a man saw the reason to rape you, though you're only 15. Try not to reenact the scenario in ur mind, to ur friends in school or the Street Fighter Online forum anymore.

Of course, everything I've said would be based on the fact that you're not messing with us and you're actually being honest to us that you were raped. Kinda like SBYRD5's topic on Axe and his socalled "death". I can't be 100% certain and gullible as to what most members on this forum would sayy because I do NOT know any of u in the real world, therefore, stories that hit THIS close to home can never be swallowed completely by yours sincerely :biggrin:

That's basically all I have to sayy... and one more thing though; if this really happened, there's something else you should be more worried about. Are u sure you're not ... pregnant o_0 ??

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blanka09 Senior Member Senior Member Join Date: Feb 2003 Posts: 3,884 Post Thanks / Like Thanks (Given): 0 Thanks (Received): 0 Likes (Given): 0 Likes (Received): 0 Dislikes (Given): 0 Dislikes (Received): 0 Points: 0 Mentioned: 0 Post(s) Tagged: 0 Thread(s) Quoted: 0 Post(s)	Lol.. now forgive my initial laughter, but ladyy... you're just a few months older than my younger sister.. and if she were raped, the last place I'd want her to get any "advice" is an online forum filled with 75% of kids who are just entering puberty. And looking back at my biggie topic, I'd have to sayy everything adds up... but honestly, the signature thingy ?? I think you might be hanging up on the situation in the wrong scenario. In all honesty, I don't know why a man would rape a 15 year old... but from what I've seen in life, I won't put it past some sick fools. What you SHOULD do is go to ur God (if you have one) and pray. You're 15, therefore you have the brain developed enough to search urself and find a reason as to why it happened. Whatever we face in life's a result of Karma. In the sense that what you get in life is a result of action/inactions you've taken in the past. Kinda like the first rule of Alchemy, called equivalent trade. After searching within urself and finding the reasons as to why it happened... and how you might have played a role (be it the way you dress, where you hang out, who you hang out and the likes) in the whole incident. If you're true to urself, you'll find out an answer. Correct that wrong loophole in ur life and move on. Talk to ur parents about it... I can't imagine the pain I'd feel if I find out my sister or if I had a daughter and learnt she was raped. It'll tear them apart, so try and least assure them that you're okay and you're not going to kill urself anytime soon :biggrin: ... and I'm sure they'll have some advice for you. Finally don't go around publicly displaying this ID as one that's been raped. It doesn't help solve the problem... unfortunately, it brings a very bad label on u urself. People would label you as being something/someone you aren't because a man saw the reason to rape you, though you're only 15. Try not to reenact the scenario in ur mind, to ur friends in school or the Street Fighter Online forum anymore. Of course, everything I've said would be based on the fact that you're not messing with us and you're actually being honest to us that you were raped. Kinda like SBYRD5's topic on Axe and his socalled "death". I can't be 100% certain and gullible as to what most members on this forum would sayy because I do NOT know any of u in the real world, therefore, stories that hit THIS close to home can never be swallowed completely by yours sincerely :biggrin: That's basically all I have to sayy... and one more thing though; if this really happened, there's something else you should be more worried about. Are u sure you're not ... pregnant o_0 ?? Edited By blanka09 on 1116963059 __________________ [img:sig_uid]http://www.boomspeed.com/blanka09/banner2.jpg[/img:sig_uid]