Debating what marriage is all about - Page 9

DanYankees · 12-24-2002, 03:06 PM

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ost_uid0="viper2040"]The Con side is looking at how it is practiced as a majority around the world. Thats not a good view to take in this discussion--we're looking at why people in the USA and or Britain and or canada get married; the standard of living and treatment of women in places like these is much higher than elsewhere. Whether marriage is abused most of the time is besides the point; what matters is how it will be used by the people in this discussion[/quote]
Yes that is what I was getting at with Tark earlier...now the whole discussion is getting out of hand.

steventhebol · 12-24-2002, 03:55 PM

well I think that marriage actually gives a little boost to life! Its better to be married than to be lonely all the time but then again the lonely ppl can always be pimp!

SBYRD5 · 12-25-2002, 12:43 PM

umm pimping is good. :laugh:

Ludacris · 12-25-2002, 04:43 PM

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ost_uid0="TarkanX"]

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i have no idea where the hell u got that in marriage the "man owns the woman"... and who said marriage is good? this debate is about wut marriage actually is not if itz good or not. if i said that itz good then just ignore it cuz this debate is about what marriage actually is. and in marriage, in my words, it doesn't mean the "man owns the woman"

Then why get married? If you say you trully love eachother, and you proved it by making babies, why get married?[/quote]
yep that's true.........yo U don't need to go to church to marry a gurl to have it on paper ..........I mean U could just give her the damn ring and that's it or just go out with the gurl and that's it........I mean what's the difference........as long as U love the gurl and U wanna spend your whole life with her and give her kids, then there is no need for marriage........ok marriage is a religious thing and some are more religious then others and want to respect the tradition or whatever but me ok I'm in religion a lot, I go to church once in a while, I know about marriage and all.........look my parents were married, they divorced at the time I was 3 and then they got back together but they didn't get married again.........and they never broke up since.........anyway.........for me marriage is just a big waste of time...........and money :biggrin:

montalvo · 12-25-2002, 05:44 PM

This is what i think.
if you truly love someone...then dont marry them...you dont need to get married to show love and affection. Their is no bennifit to being married.(unless your a woman who wants to kill thier husband to get their insurance money).

Ludacris · 12-25-2002, 08:47 PM

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ost_uid0="montalvo"]This is what i think.
if you truly love someone...then dont marry them...you dont need to get married to show love and affection. Their is no bennifit to being married.(unless your a woman who wants to kill thier husband to get their insurance money).[/quote]
exactly.......especially about the insurance part lol :biggrin:

viper2040 · 12-25-2002, 09:31 PM

you dont have to get married, but by the same token you dont have to tell the woman you love her. Its a symbol of commitment and love

steventhebol · 12-26-2002, 04:21 AM

Actually if u make babies before u get married and u are a deeply religios christian, you do have a chance of getting kicked out of your church! Thats what happened to my mom when she gave birth to me.

DanYankees · 12-26-2002, 06:43 AM

haha well it's okay because she gave a birth to a great man, steventhebol! *cough*

SBYRD5 · 12-26-2002, 08:01 AM

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ost_uid0="steventhebol"]Actually if u make babies before u get married and u are a deeply religios christian, you do have a chance of getting kicked out of your church! Thats what happened to my mom when she gave birth to me.[/quote]
Thats true steven,but I think the reason she might of said she was almost kicked out of her chruch is because it's a desgrace to be pregnant before marriage in the christian world...

12-24-2002, 03:06 PM	#81
DanYankees Senior Member Senior Member Join Date: Apr 2002 Posts: 714 Post Thanks / Like Thanks (Given): 0 Thanks (Received): 0 Likes (Given): 0 Likes (Received): 0 Dislikes (Given): 0 Dislikes (Received): 0 Points: 0 Mentioned: 0 Post(s) Tagged: 0 Thread(s) Quoted: 0 Post(s)	[quoteost_uid0="viper2040"]The Con side is looking at how it is practiced as a majority around the world. Thats not a good view to take in this discussion--we're looking at why people in the USA and or Britain and or canada get married; the standard of living and treatment of women in places like these is much higher than elsewhere. Whether marriage is abused most of the time is besides the point; what matters is how it will be used by the people in this discussion[/quote] Yes that is what I was getting at with Tark earlier...now the whole discussion is getting out of hand. __________________ LETS GO YANKEES

12-24-2002, 03:55 PM	#82
steventhebol Senior Member Senior Member Join Date: Oct 2001 Location: home Posts: 813 Post Thanks / Like Thanks (Given): 0 Thanks (Received): 0 Likes (Given): 0 Likes (Received): 0 Dislikes (Given): 0 Dislikes (Received): 0 Points: 0 Mentioned: 0 Post(s) Tagged: 0 Thread(s) Quoted: 0 Post(s)	well I think that marriage actually gives a little boost to life! Its better to be married than to be lonely all the time but then again the lonely ppl can always be pimp! __________________ http://www.marvel.com[br]hahaha! I put the marvel in marvelous! Death awaits you so step foward!!

12-25-2002, 05:44 PM	#85
montalvo Senior Member Senior Member Join Date: Apr 2002 Posts: 794 Post Thanks / Like Thanks (Given): 0 Thanks (Received): 0 Likes (Given): 0 Likes (Received): 0 Dislikes (Given): 0 Dislikes (Received): 0 Points: 0 Mentioned: 0 Post(s) Tagged: 0 Thread(s) Quoted: 0 Post(s)	This is what i think. if you truly love someone...then dont marry them...you dont need to get married to show love and affection. Their is no bennifit to being married.(unless your a woman who wants to kill thier husband to get their insurance money). __________________ [img:sig_uid]http://www.digikitten.com/playhousev2/files/montalvo/dubya tee eff.jpg[/img:sig_uid] We lost the SuperBowl! XD

12-25-2002, 08:47 PM	#86
Ludacris Senior Member Senior Member Join Date: Jul 2002 Location: Montreal Posts: 4,935 Post Thanks / Like Thanks (Given): 0 Thanks (Received): 0 Likes (Given): 0 Likes (Received): 0 Dislikes (Given): 0 Dislikes (Received): 0 Points: 0 Mentioned: 0 Post(s) Tagged: 0 Thread(s) Quoted: 0 Post(s)	[quoteost_uid0="montalvo"]This is what i think. if you truly love someone...then dont marry them...you dont need to get married to show love and affection. Their is no bennifit to being married.(unless your a woman who wants to kill thier husband to get their insurance money).[/quote] exactly.......especially about the insurance part lol :biggrin: __________________ Fighting Name: Darkludacris [quote:sig_uid]Corky is mine[/quote:sig_uid] [img:sig_uid]http://img78.photobucket.com/albums/v256/Darkludacris/Ludascorky.gif[/img:sig_uid]

12-25-2002, 09:31 PM	#87
viper2040 Senior Member Senior Member Join Date: Dec 2001 Location: Virginia Posts: 789 Post Thanks / Like Thanks (Given): 0 Thanks (Received): 0 Likes (Given): 0 Likes (Received): 0 Dislikes (Given): 0 Dislikes (Received): 0 Points: 0 Mentioned: 0 Post(s) Tagged: 0 Thread(s) Quoted: 0 Post(s)	you dont have to get married, but by the same token you dont have to tell the woman you love her. Its a symbol of commitment and love __________________ questions about getting PC, server, or game console to work? gimme a holler.

12-25-2002, 12:43 PM	#83
SBYRD5 Banned Senior Member Join Date: Jun 2002 Location: North Carolina Posts: 6,549 Post Thanks / Like Thanks (Given): 0 Thanks (Received): 0 Likes (Given): 0 Likes (Received): 0 Dislikes (Given): 0 Dislikes (Received): 0 Points: 0 Mentioned: 0 Post(s) Tagged: 0 Thread(s) Quoted: 0 Post(s)	umm pimping is good. :laugh:

12-26-2002, 04:21 AM	#88
steventhebol Senior Member Senior Member Join Date: Oct 2001 Location: home Posts: 813 Post Thanks / Like Thanks (Given): 0 Thanks (Received): 0 Likes (Given): 0 Likes (Received): 0 Dislikes (Given): 0 Dislikes (Received): 0 Points: 0 Mentioned: 0 Post(s) Tagged: 0 Thread(s) Quoted: 0 Post(s)	Actually if u make babies before u get married and u are a deeply religios christian, you do have a chance of getting kicked out of your church! Thats what happened to my mom when she gave birth to me. __________________ http://www.marvel.com[br]hahaha! I put the marvel in marvelous! Death awaits you so step foward!!

12-26-2002, 06:43 AM	#89
DanYankees Senior Member Senior Member Join Date: Apr 2002 Posts: 714 Post Thanks / Like Thanks (Given): 0 Thanks (Received): 0 Likes (Given): 0 Likes (Received): 0 Dislikes (Given): 0 Dislikes (Received): 0 Points: 0 Mentioned: 0 Post(s) Tagged: 0 Thread(s) Quoted: 0 Post(s)	haha well it's okay because she gave a birth to a great man, steventhebol! cough __________________ LETS GO YANKEES

12-26-2002, 08:01 AM	#90
SBYRD5 Banned Senior Member Join Date: Jun 2002 Location: North Carolina Posts: 6,549 Post Thanks / Like Thanks (Given): 0 Thanks (Received): 0 Likes (Given): 0 Likes (Received): 0 Dislikes (Given): 0 Dislikes (Received): 0 Points: 0 Mentioned: 0 Post(s) Tagged: 0 Thread(s) Quoted: 0 Post(s)	[quoteost_uid0="steventhebol"]Actually if u make babies before u get married and u are a deeply religios christian, you do have a chance of getting kicked out of your church! Thats what happened to my mom when she gave birth to me.[/quote] Thats true steven,but I think the reason she might of said she was almost kicked out of her chruch is because it's a desgrace to be pregnant before marriage in the christian world...