I have a problem.. - What should i do?

[SuperSonicX]

Well...its like this..i been going with this girl..online...for like 10 months now...got to know each other real well...and etc...i started to love this girl...cuz she seems like she really care's about me...and..I really care about her...i..never thought that...u could find love online..must ppl say online dating sucks ass...because u really dont see the person..or get to "really" know them...but i dont believe in that...its just another form of dating...but anyways...she told me that after she graduate's from high school..she wants for me to go to collage with her...but...i really wanted to go to a trade school...*and learn GFX Design..* in fact i never told her that...i dunno if i even CAN go to collage...i really love this girl...and i want to met her in person...what if i dont? Will that show that i dont care for her anymore?? I mean she wants to move to my location and go to shcool...so we can met...but..i really dont wanna go to collage...*if i can that is..* so..post what u think i should do and why...


And plz no flaming....

[DARKPICCOLO]

come on Sonic listen to what U R saying.......go to trade school land a good job.....make like a gagillion bucks then pay some model chick to go out with you :D NO but seriously i had a problem simular to this one with a pen pal of mine. she lives quite a distance away but i thought we could make it work.. she said that she was going to move here after high school that way we could be togeter. but honastly i dont think thats what either of us wanted. I told her that she should think about her future first and thats what you should do bro......im not saying that you guys are not in love im just saying you cant jump head first into something like this......but thats just my opinion i dont know if it helped at all but i hope so ;)




NEXT

[SuperSonicX]

I know that but...i really care for this girl...even if it means puting myself behind for her..

[DARKPICCOLO]

well good luck to you on whatever you decide :D

[Zanrel]

Hey you should ask her for her pic, and you give her your pic.
Because I know alot of people who meets a person from internet, who thought they were in love but just fall apart because the exterior appearance didnt live to their expectations. Now I know appearance doesnt matter in true love, but it plays a difference to others and maybe to her as well as you. But if its your destiny to meet her, then go out to meet her. :)

[Ludacris]

Well...its like this..i been going with this girl..online...for like 10 months now...got to know each other real well...and etc...i started to love this girl...cuz she seems like she really care's about me...and..I really care about her...i..never thought that...u could find love online..must ppl say online dating sucks ass...because u really dont see the person..or get to "really" know them...but i dont believe in that...its just another form of dating...but anyways...she told me that after she graduate's from high school..she wants for me to go to collage with her...but...i really wanted to go to a trade school...*and learn GFX Design..* in fact i never told her that...i dunno if i even CAN go to collage...i really love this girl...and i want to met her in person...what if i dont? Will that show that i dont care for her anymore?? I mean she wants to move to my location and go to shcool...so we can met...but..i really dont wanna go to collage...*if i can that is..* so..post what u think i should do and why...


And plz no flaming....
My gurlfriend, I've met her on the net......she leaves far away from me(not that far I can still see her in week-ends) so we decided to meet at La Ronde(it's in montreal, Lots of rides)anyways.........I didn't wanted to be in danger lol so I went with some friends of mine and then I met her and she was really beautiful and we connected and we went out and when she had to leave I told her I loved her and we kissed(a passionate kiss, I'll never forget it lol).......I know i'm 15 but still.........but your case is more serious cuz U wanna give ur dream of becoming GFX designer(I don't know if U become a GFX Designer if U learn GFX design)........hey I'm maybe be young but the first thing that makes a relationship work is communication........U should tell her about your GFX plans......I'm sure she'll understand.......if she wants the best for U, she'll be ok with that........but dog don't blow your career plans away because of that........some sacrifice are worth it but some can really cost.......talk to her about it first and tell me (or us) how she reacted to it......

[princevegetam]

uh... ssx, i'm guessin you are talking about lara?

lol, i never knew you two had such a "serious" relationship, lol.


anyways, i always like giving out love advice(but i have no love life :( ).

first of all, you really need to drop your "bad habits". *cough*masturbating*cough*

and second, can you give us more info about yourself? like how old you are, your education. and give more info about lara. i can't come up with a solution without carefully analyzing your problem.

[SuperSonicX]

Masterbation?? Whats that? *hides* Well im 17..but i guess u could say 18 cuz im turning 18 this thursday.
:D Education?? High school!! As for my girl..i dont think she would like it if i gave out her info..so i wont say. Like i said..i want to go to a trade school...

[princevegetam]

LMAO!!!


okay, i'm guessin this IS lara. well, just make ABSOLUTELY sure that she feels the same way about you. and you should talk to her about this. i guess it's a pretty tough decision between the girl of your dreams and a successful future. there is a way to have both. and sry, i didn't know that you go to a "trade" school to learn gfx design(i'm not eactly sure where you came up with that). who said you needed to go to a trade school to learn gfx design? you can go to a college and learn gfx design there. and are you sure she would feel okay if you told us about the problems between you two?

[Ludacris]

Masterbation?? Whats that? *hides* Well im 17..but i guess u could say 18 cuz im turning 18 this thursday.
:D Education?? High school!! As for my girl..i dont think she would like it if i gave out her info..so i wont say. Like i said..i want to go to a trade school...
Then go to trade school.........if you tell her she'll understand.......are you scared of sumthin????

[QUIET_KILLER]

[quote:post_uid4="SuperSonicX"][color=blue:post_uid4]Masterbation?? Whats that? *hides* Well im 17..but i guess u could say 18 cuz im turning 18 this thursday.
:D Education?? High school!! As for my girl..i dont think she would like it if i gave out her info..so i wont say. Like i said..i want to go to a trade school...[/color:post_uid4][/quote:post_uid4]
HMmM...Well if you 2 really ccare about each other like you said.Then you have an endless amount possibilities.You could kick your self I don't recommend it.Now you 2 should talk about your options having to deal with your education and financial stability yes start thinking about that.Hey I am almost 16 and I already am.You can never be to karefull.Follow your heart how ever use that brain that God gave ya.Example:you talk to the female of your dreams you say uh I want to go to college but you have to allow me to follow my dreams.If we are to succeed we must accomplish what we first have in Mind.Hey if your going to college and I go to trade school then.We will both have some chance of success at being with each other in the near future.To be honest no one can actually give you usefull advice except your parents.Personally do what ever makes you happy and is successfull for the Both of ya as for.As for me I am going to go and try to faint I have to read a 1120 page Book for my classes I have only 2 weeks.Cough*Cisco...Goodluck to you mr SSX in Jorney for the ultimate advice :biggrin:

[SuperSonicX]

Oh no...im not scared..*i think* I know u dont have to go to a trade school..but i HATE school! Whats the point..i could just learn a simple trade..and find a high paying job...I know some dudes get more money doing that than going to college and ####...but again..i really love this girl..she's my first love ever..in my life..*sigh*

[Ludacris]

Oh no...im not scared..*i think* I know u dont have to go to a trade school..but i HATE school! Whats the point..i could just learn a simple trade..and find a high paying job...I know some dudes get more money doing that than going to college and ####...but again..i really love this girl..she's my first love ever..in my life..*sigh*
yeah I know........I love my Laura so much.......I don't know what I would do without her.......but U gotta think for your future too.......if U hate school then don't go to one cause you'll probably have bad results.......ddon't be scared of asking her cuz if U are now, U'll be scared for the rest of your life......and I don't think U want that

[SuperSonicX]

Yeah thats true..i guess i have to get myself straight first..

[princevegetam]

okay, your perspective is school isn't exactly thought-out. yeah, i hate school and it's boring cause i know more than half of the #### they teach me. but education at your level shouldn't be like that. i mean, have you ever taken computer courses before? college computer courses are very fun and interesting. if i had to pick between my #### school now and college i'd gladly go to college any day. and the thing is, don't you want to know more than others? do you want to remain one of those dumbass ppl for the rest of your life? school changes you. and with a good education, you'll get higher pays. that means you and lara can live a nice life. not a life in some rundown apartment in a high crime area.

let's face it: high-education=money money=good life

it's that simple.

[SuperSonicX]

Heh thx prince...

[princevegetam]

btw, how come you and lara are not going on MSN these days.

[SuperSonicX]

btw, how come you and lara are not going on MSN these days.
I cant say..but we talk on the phone more...

[SSJKarma]

you know what !

i had helped my best friend with his love problems for all my life... at least for the last 5 years ! we are 21 year old ! i don't have a single love experience but my advice has always seemed to work out for him ! i always tell him to COMMUNICATE with the girl and stop making what SHE wants him to do !

my way of thinking is like that...
Talk together and make compromise about your way of living. if the girl don't want you to do what you want then she is simply not for you. same goes the other way around. so the best solution is TALKING about it all and try and stay in the middle of it.

she want to get into college and you want to go to a trade shcool ? fine then try and find the middle in that by going into a trade shcool near her college ! she wants to meet you in real life, then make half of the way and she will make the other half.

but remember, TALK to her as much as you can, cause it is the only thing who will solve your problem ! talking to us won't solve it, as it concern you and your girlfriend ! not us !

GOOD LUCK

[Ludacris]

you know what !

i had helped my best friend with his love problems for all my life... at least for the last 5 years ! we are 21 year old ! i don't have a single love experience but my advice has always seemed to work out for him ! i always tell him to COMMUNICATE with the girl and stop making what SHE wants him to do !

my way of thinking is like that...
Talk together and make compromise about your way of living. if the girl don't want you to do what you want then she is simply not for you. same goes the other way around. so the best solution is TALKING about it all and try and stay in the middle of it.

she want to get into college and you want to go to a trade shcool ? fine then try and find the middle in that by going into a trade shcool near her college ! she wants to meet you in real life, then make half of the way and she will make the other half.

but remember, TALK to her as much as you can, cause it is the only thing who will solve your problem ! talking to us won't solve it, as it concern you and your girlfriend ! not us !

GOOD LUCK
Now that's a great advice........a little like mine but even better.......after all those advice I hope you chose what to do Sonic.....

[tupac2westsider]

Ok here is what i think of the situation.................

People fall in love and then break up...........Thats a Fact. U say u know her because u like her personality. Ok i know alot about this ok......My friend and I like to talk to girls like alot. i love females i love them. Ok but i just dont get into the hole online thing but i have talk to girls on the phone that my friend know and ive never seen. Ok when i talk to them on the phone i tell her a bunch of stories and she does the same.........Look like we are getting along right. But once i asked her out and actually got to meet her it was a wholeeee.................Different story. She got on my nerves, anoying as hell, talked too much(she didnt let me have a word in any part of the conversation), Stuck up, and she only thought of herself. Now dosent sound like it went well did it!!!

Where im trying to get with this is that u never know how someone is going to be until u actaully get to have a face to face conversation with that person. But u will never find out if u never try either. what u whould do is one day u should visit or she should visit u and see how u click!!!! because if she goes all that way to go to college there and u guys dont click......then u and her just messed ur lifes up. U say u might love her but in reallity u can say u love anyone Online. So is it really love if ur calling that person, getting to know her, talking about ur day, or just having a good conversation or is it another way to describe a friendship.

Ok i dont want to tell u what to do but ill tell u what i would do..................Ok what i would do is test my feelings for this person. go out with other people then if u still think about that person u say u love then u truely do love her. U got to play the field Sonic u got to test ur feelings and if u still feel the same way then make an effort to meet this person. Because Love and friendship is a totally different emotions.......even thought there the different they have simaleraties between the both that can get u confused. ;)

I dont know if my boring post is going to help but.............

I wish you good luck!!!!!!!

PS: If u guys really Love eachother then u guys can wait for eachother...............Think about it!!!!! :)

[SuperSonicX]

Whoa..great advice..yall..thank's.

[princevegetam]

tupac is so damn right

[gotenks007]

i'm gonna take the position of pimp round here...

[tupac2westsider]

tupac is so damn right
Thanks if had some experience on this field :)

[pip99]

get a grip dude .. she could be a minger and people act different on the net .... and u hav never met her ..and ITS ON THE NET...and why the hwll would u choose some girl OFF THE NET..who u hav never met before over your carear i could understand if u had known her in real life but ITS ON THE NET and plz dont say uve fell in love with a girl off the net.. and another possible option is that shes a 45 year old pervert man who wears a white coat round the house 2 cover up his naked self..... ???

[Roll]

I can't believe I didn't see this sooner... Well here's some advice from a woman to a boy. (pfft!)

The situation is that you can't decide over her and trade school right? Look. You're going to have to choose the thing that'll help you BOTH, even if it is painful (especially if you want to get married eventually) . If you decide to go to trade school, tell her that. If she says that she won't be your girlfriend anymore or something like that, then she isn't really in love with you, or is really desperate to have her way. If she accepts it without fighting or anything, then you'll just have to wait it out and see what happens. If she truly loves you, she'll wait for you, and if you truly love her (and I can tell you do) then you should wait for her as well. Otherwise, that love is hopeless.

[mysticveggeto]

are you gonna get married

[Ludacris]

are you gonna get married
god........I know you're young but common......if U don,t know what the topic is about then don't say anything..... :biggrin:

[mysticveggeto]

with her

[Ludacris]

with her
read the first post.......It has nuthin to do with marriage.......geez......he had a problem, the community helped him(Tupac, Prince, QUIET, Karma and myself) and now it's to him to decide what he's gonna do........