Rose or sakura

[hotsexi_chic]

[quoteost_uid0="azncat"]if i had a "lover" then i go to japan get the sakura then come back get the roses and give her both.... there simple enough[/quote]
haha lol

that's obviously the best way... but my question is which one would you chose if you had to pick one or the other

[coolplayer2K2]

Roses obviously.

[EvilAkuma]

i say roses reason, cuz gurls loves that more (I think) :biggrin:

[PSYCHO]

meh... i go w/ none of them.. gf gimme love not teh other way around
Also in respect for my self i dont buy gf's poop cuz they'll take advantage of that trust me..

[-_SKILLZ_-]

yea some are hoes(gold diggers) nvm use men for money... but i would buy a rose cuz girls like that more and lol... sakura is a rose no wonder the character sakura look good lol(cough ingame wife is i was a character)

[azncat]

[quoteost_uid0="hotsexi_chic"][quoteost_uid0="azncat"]if i had a "lover" then i go to japan get the sakura then come back get the roses and give her both.... there simple enough[/quote]
haha lol

that's obviously the best way... but my question is which one would you chose if you had to pick one or the other[/quote]
options arent anything to me if i love her a lot...

[Roll]

if you boyfrd actaully gives you a sakura you would actaully be pleased?

I'd be surprised and happy, but mostly surprised. That's because the only Sakura tree in this town is in my room. ^-^;
So he either had to sneak in sometime and chop a bit without my noticing, or he found a way to get some on his own. Either way, I'd be proud.

but this is about the love he's giving. if he gives you a sakura, it would be like giving your mom rose and carnation to your gf. what would they think of you? your mom wuld think you really need help cuz you have oedipus complex sydro, and your gf would think that you only think of the love relationship as a family relationship and treat her as a mom.thats kinda funny and embarrassing wouldn't it

What kind of logic is that? That's not at all what it would be like. Getting some Sakura from a man would be a love-tying gift, not like a rose you would give to a mother or a carnation to a friend (or girlfriend, whatever you meant). It's not embarressing at all. That's like calling a public display of affection, such as a kiss, embarressing.

sakura is rare but if it's about rarity then your bf should get you a dinosaur
beside, sakura is a spring flower which mean childish.

It's not about the rarity. It's about the love and thought behind it. Anyone can go out and purchase a rose from any flowershop. I would know, I work in one.
Also, a spring flower does NOT mean childish. It changes the meaning per flower. Sakura means Cherry Blossom. A Cherry Blossom, which is pink/white/reddish in color (depending on the moment of bloom, the time after it had bloomed, etc.) means Passion, dreams, and Yakusoku in the language of the japanese flower.

have you seen real live sakura before? maybe you can explain how pretty it is.

I just explained this up above. It's very beautiful to have... no rose has ever taken its place, at least not within my heart. I don't think anyone could make a mistake in choosing what flowers and things they'd love to get. This is preference... not which is more popular. Love is sacred. It should never depend on such fickle things as which one is more usual, or what's more seen by society, or howbig it is, or how special, etc. What matters is the thought.
If my lover gave me a mechanical pencil, I would not even use one lead. I would treasure it forever.

by the way, who is that person is your banner? did you make it?

The girl(s) in my Banner is Nakoruru, and the Furry man is a Coyote from the Trickster stories of the Indian Tribes as drawn by Brian Waer. And I did make the banner.

Anyone who can figure out the true meaning of the words in any of my banners, is truly blessed, and so is the person who will be with them shortly afterward...

[akuma_forever]

Sakura Flowers are better than Roses in my opinion...

[hotsexi_chic]

[quoteost_uid0="Roll"]

What kind of logic is that? That's not at all what it would be like. Getting some Sakura from a man would be a love-tying gift, not like a rose you would give to a mother or a carnation to a friend (or girlfriend, whatever you meant). It's not embarressing at all. That's like calling a public display of affection, such as a kiss, embarressing.

"What kind of logic is that?"
the logic is based on society and social norms( i also learned this in psychology) most ppl will not do what is concern different. this is called ethnomethodology-- the study of the common sense knowledge that ppl use to understand the stiuations in which they find themselves. ethnomethodology examine existing patterns of convetional behavior in order to uncover ppl's background expectancies--that's their shared interpretation of objects and events. for example:

A: how are u?
B: how am i in regard to what ? my heatlh, my finances.my school work, my peace ofmind, my......
A: (red in the face and suddenly out of control) Look! I was just trying to be polite. frankly, i don't give a damn how u r..

in this encounter, the acquaintance expected the student to use conventional behavior in answering the question. by acting unconverntionally, the student violated background expenctaancies and effectively "sabotages" the interacation
( this it from the book"sociology in our time" by Diana kendall)

this is just the everyday norm of society. obviously there are except to everything. like you roll who enjoys sakura (or anyting that has to do with sakura) you don't mind recieving sakura from your bf but most girl might expect to recieve roses. i guess u just have to get to know the person 1st.

y did you pick Nakoruru and not sakura as your banner? y do you like sakura so much?

thank you for your explaination on sakura. now i have a better understanding of sakura. So you actaully have sakura in your roOM? how do you take care of it? i tho you said that it is only in japan? So you went to japan and got it? are you japanese?



Edited By hotsexi_chic on June 28 2004 at 02:03

[ZeroEna]

Not all people conform to the norms that people set, it is only natural for someone not to have the same views or norms.... even if it isn't normal to some people that is what makes each person unique.

.... It is a hard choice... it would depend on the relationship...of the flowers forms and colors can signify the situation of the relationship.... because no matter howbeautiful a rose is it still has its thorns..., as love has its ups and downs... or a red rose can mean any number of things true love, rebirth, redemption, even 'in rose' or in latin sub-rosa...... meaning a hidden or secret love... Just as sakura can mean a fresh begining, the ending, or the devotion to love to persevere and flourish... it depends on the persons interpretation of it suppose..... in all honesty I would give a sakura..... because to me it signifies that with each ending comes a begining...... and with that begining comes hope... and the will to contnue on.... just as they only bloom for a time then cease... they will bloom once again.... just as love does....



Edited By ZeroEna on June 28 2004 at 01:58