girls, girls, girls - need help

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Inclusive: Mods. you can close this anytime because stupid topic but you know me always making good stuff well you know what I mean
where heres the problem
I need help understanding girls
I mean I can get a girl who can't
but it's like this I know this girl right first time I met her I was attracted to her. But time went by I didn't see it anymore so we stayed friends. I never asked her will she go with me or anything. I seen how she act and all that good stuff. Now she asked me to go with her I turned her down i'm not use to turning girls down now i fell bad:sad:. The reason I turned her down is that she is a playa I seen her get #'s from other boys then she got a boyfriend already I told her I don't won't to get my a** beat by him. But then I said we can just have sex was I wrong?:biggrin:
The problem about me is that I wait to late to get the girl like i'm shy or something but I think i'm scared of a relationship{not sounding like a b****} but i'm quick to ask them for sex am i wrong?:biggrin:
how would you act in the situation?
the legend has answered
to be continued..............