Advice >_<

[m0u5y]

hey.... since there have been topics of this nature posted previously it wont hurt for me to do the same lol...
well here... my bf and i seem to have this language gap, i mean hes a thug raised in the ghetto n stuff and i understand that he uses a certain language, but to me its very hurtful, yet i've been trying to get over it, and he seems not to understand what i say or takes it somehow as im talkin **** to him (maybe its the big words lol). i recently emailed him asking if he was ok and if work was stressing him out.. and the next thing you know he replies with.. WT**** in big caps... and im like... where did that come from. i recently emailed him again trying to understand why he said that and all i get is attitude... now, i dont want to see something that might not be there but well... his actions seem to say that hes like ***** some chick. i mean, i cant see what kind of person he really is cuz he acts different with different people and i never will know if hes sincere when he sais that he'd never do such a thing or if he told me about what he really thinks. im trying to trust someone for once.. and it seems to be shooting me in the foot. this kid otherwise would be in deep trouble, since he gets bored he has his fun, and i mean he gets himself in deep crud. the kid isnt that bad but well.. u know how it goes.. friends and boredom... so well unless im there to use his time (yeah.. what am i his baby sitter?) he would surely do something stupid. its funny how the only faithful ones (male or female) end up caring for someone who dont give a ####. so, what do you think... should i try to work things out talking as we've done so far, and yes it has worked, until something else has come up (and maybe im the only one that can see the light at the end of this poor kid's tunnel) or just ditch the idea, put no effort into it... and get over it... well that would take me a while. ^_^ so what ya think? lol man it sounds like we're already married and what not.