Rose or sakura

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[quote:post_uid0="hotsexi_chic"]"What kind of logic is that?"
the logic is based on society and social norms( i also learned this in psychology) most ppl will not do what is concern different. this is called ethnomethodology-- the study of the common sense knowledge that ppl use to understand the stiuations in which they find themselves. ethnomethodology examine existing patterns of convetional behavior in order to uncover ppl's background expectancies--that's their shared interpretation of objects and events. for example:

A: how are u?
B: how am i in regard to what ? my heatlh, my finances.my school work, my peace ofmind, my......
A: (red in the face and suddenly out of control) Look! I was just trying to be polite. frankly, i don't give a damn how u r..

in this encounter, the acquaintance expected the student to use conventional behavior in answering the question. by acting unconverntionally, the student violated background expenctaancies and effectively "sabotages" the interacation
( this it from the book"sociology in our time" by Diana kendall)[/quote]
Books, however, and *ologies as well, are all based up with facts that could have been found in one random place. I don't expect anyone at all to understand this, but books and ologies are all based on the fact that people want to write down thoughts (simple or critical), legends, but mostly things based off of experiences.

this is just the everyday norm of society. obviously there are except to everything. like you roll who enjoys sakura (or anyting that has to do with sakura) you don't mind recieving sakura from your bf but most girl might expect to recieve roses. i guess u just have to get to know the person 1st.

The fact is, if you don't know the person and you're their girlfriend/boyfriend, then you really can't consider it a loving relationship. Secrets galore rest within the love that breaks the tenderness.

y did you pick Nakoruru and not sakura as your banner? y do you like sakura so much?

I picked Nako because it made sense at this point. She had the type of temperament that the creators wanted her to have: Loving, pure, but sad because of herself. It fit in with my meaning.
I like Sakura the flower for a hidden reason that exists between me and my long gone Grandmother and great Grandfather. I like the character because she represents everything I think I would like to be: determined, strong, and not caring as to who thinks I will fail in the end. Instead, Sakura brushes everything off, and lives her life as she wants to; she lives it like a dream.

thank you for your explaination on sakura. now i have a better understanding of sakura. So you actaully have sakura in your roOM? how do you take care of it? i tho you said that it is only in japan? So you went to japan and got it? are you japanese?

I do have Sakura in my room, and I take care of it by watering it, though now that I have the perpetual stream, I don't need to do it. Also, allowing it to have sun helps. They are natural and wild in Japan. However, it isn't as difficult as people make it out to be to get them. If you go out to your local Home Depot, they will willingly order one for you, from Japan, who knows where. They're just native to Japan, I don't know if they've migrated from there.
And, no. Contrary to popular belief, I am not Japanese. I just speak/sing the language.

I have a feeling someone will ask about the tree being smack dab in my room, so I'm hoping someone can explain about the garden for me!