Relationships in reallife

[TremulantX]

"Rebel souls, deserters we are called, chose a gun, threw away the saw"_Bad Company idk im bored

[alamgir]

[quoteost_uid0="Warmor"]The 1 bad experience for me was the greatest thing that ever happend to me.[/quote]
What was that exactly?

[Warmor]

Well, it was typical. I was the head over heals in love guy. Would do anything for her, thought life and love was great, yadda yadda. Most guys get that way. It's called being psychologically dependent. Or...a wussy. Girls are not attracted to how nice you are, no challange, no mystery, you get the picture. Then she bails. More likely if a wedding is planned. She might even call it off a week before the wedding, when it call comes together. Guy's act this way and the relationship starts on being based off of lack. When it ends, you feel like you lost a part of your "soul" or "heart", and you feel that lack being filled empty. Then you go into a depression and start to lose, ala ME. But if you stay strong, you can survive. I've read, bought, watched, learned, and studied under masters of relationships and the mind. I've come back from it, with a firm understanding of what works and to be a complete person. The only way to find true love is to love yourself first.

[SBYRD5]

Really Warmor..

I had a similar discussion with leftyfb not to long ago...

I believe trail and area is the best method...pffft when you focus on finding love the fact is you have a less likely chance of finding it...


This reminds me of a quote fromt he show american dad..

"Feelings come from women ovaries."

[alamgir]

I know what you mean warmor. Well actually I don't because I can't say i've been there before, but hopefully you'll find someone who loves you one day.

[Warmor]

Heh, that's easy now It's all up to who I choose.

[alamgir]

Well you'll only know if you've chosen the right person after you've chosen her right?

[Warmor]

Nope.
You see, you need to date several woman at one time. Get to know each one. You don't want to even try to be exclusive until 3-6 months. In the time you date, you look for red flags. Any girl can be a potential mate. You can choose whichever one you want, and make her feel attraction for you, and have her, it's up to you which one. Choose all the ones you want, date them, then when you find one, stick with it. It's all up to you, whenever you want.

[TremulantX]

[quoteost_uid0="Warmor"]Nope.
You see, you need to date several woman at one time. Get to know each one. You don't want to even try to be exclusive until 3-6 months. In the time you date, you look for red flags. Any girl can be a potential mate. You can choose whichever one you want, and make her feel attraction for you, and have her, it's up to you which one. Choose all the ones you want, date them, then when you find one, stick with it. It's all up to you, whenever you want.[/quote]
that is the most true thing i have ever seen and i not just agreeing w/ u just to, because everyone tells me that........... after i had my first heart break i started talking to all sorts of girls and sometimes id be on the phone with em for hours and two at a time, thank god for two phones lines and call waiting! so yea it actually felt good not to worry about ruining the relationship by doing or saying the wrong thing.......... because they were just friends and i could always get more!!



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[Warmor]

Here is a tip:

The greatest gift you can give any woman is...........the gift of missing you. Takes 5 min. to get her number. Then leave. Your a busy guy. Then call her up in 2-3 days. Make a date for later that week to have some tea or coffee and a stimulating conversation. Not the same day, or next day. Later that week. Make that phone call 10-15 minutes. Good. It goes on from there, if you want to learn.