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wolvamat · 07-02-2004, 05:16 AM

Ok u probably have no idea what this topic is about so i will tell u...

I havent been having a very good life at all and i have no one to turn to... so i thought i would tell u guys since i wont see u in real life.

Ok so first and most hurting... i havent had a hug in 6 years.
i get told im ugly just about every day... yes from girls...
my friends are assholes i only like one of em. my dad is always swearing and argueing with me and calling me a dickhead saying i have no friends etc... never had a gf or even close to it... i cant even go into class and mind my own without someone comenting.. like the other day in p.e i sat down next to this girl and she like went can u please move over... though i was already like 1 metre away... i just get put down all the time about how ugly i am... and i never see my brother anymore cuz hes to buzy with his gf etc though we grew up with each other so he was like my best friend... so all i have is my mum cuz my dad is an asshole and even my mum dont like him... i just feel like poop, i have nother better to do then masturbate or come on here sometimes..
my life sucks.. i have no idea what i should do...
i dread walking to the dinner table cuz i know my dad will just start an arguement and end up swearing at me. i dont know where to turn or what to do... i cant tell my mum or anyone how i feel.. i dont know what i should do..

Edited By wolvamat on July 02 2004 at 18:18

07-02-2004, 06:19 AM

Well I guess u should just ignore them.If they say ur ugly then ignore them.but don't tell on them because ppl will start calling u a tatletale if youdo.Trust me,my friend's little sister,she tatle's like mad and no1 basiclly likes her.

Evil-Blanka · 07-02-2004, 06:56 AM

[quote

ost_uid0="(~Snake~)"]Well I guess u should just ignore them.If they say ur ugly then ignore them.but don't tell on them because ppl will start calling u a tatletale if youdo.Trust me,my friend's little sister,she tatle's like mad and no1 basiclly likes her.[/quote]
i guess you should get a make over or somthing dress like a thug or somthing or you could just take your fist and wack them on the head and when a girl say you ugly say suck mu nuts i bet she will be on you 24 7 thats how it is at my schoole i say get on them right now and they do i am a realy good looking guy whuahaha

07-02-2004, 07:02 AM

[quote

ost_uid0="Evil-Blanka"][quote

ost_uid0="(_Snake_)"]Well I guess u should just ignore them.If they say ur ugly then ignore them.but don't tell on them because ppl will start calling u a tatletale if youdo.Trust me,my friend's little sister,she tatle's like mad and no1 basiclly likes her.[/quote]
i guess you should get a make over or somthing dress like a thug or somthing or you could just take your fist and wack them on the head and when a girl say you ugly say suck mu nuts i bet she will be on you 24 7 thats how it is at my schoole i say get on them right now and they do i am a realy good looking guy whuahaha[/quote]
Hahaha.I guess i would do the same thing whack them on the head.Thats wat I do wen i get furious.I get really mad and i start attacking them or jumo and the hittem.

alamgir · 07-02-2004, 10:03 AM

The guys friggin depressed cos no one likes him. How the hell is ignoring people supposed to help. Well wolvamat I don't think anyone can help you there. Just be confident in yourself its not always looks that count, personality is more important. So just be confident, who knows something might happen.

VampireNinja · 07-02-2004, 10:10 AM

Damn dude..Feel sorry for ya..but anyways..Be a pimp..Ya noe..Start making a job..And then dress up all cool with Converse and stuff..

Just follow SYBRD and youll be alright..

BTW..I remember you from long time ago..Very long time ago here on SFO..

P.S..Ima tell SYBRD to post here..Hold up..

PSYCHO · 07-02-2004, 10:22 AM

thats messed up man...i really cant help u there.. i know a person thats exactly like u and last time in class this girl was comin close to me and he started comin close to the girl and the girl was like move away from me and he said why he's close to u too.. and they started to argue and all but at the end the point was that the kid didnt back off well sometimes he does but he dont look like he really cares..no1 likes him cuz he twitches all the time and they get freaked out by that lol.
So u shouldnt back off when all these ppl come talk poop to u, just be u and tell them if they dont like u why they talk to u
or tell them if youdont have nothin nice to say dont say nothin at all..
well good luck with ur life man.. and uhm.. dont commit suicide, ur family will regret it (i said this cuz from ur post i picked up ur really sad and u might do something u dont want to really..) ???

Razz · 07-02-2004, 10:28 AM

When a girl calls you ugly, make a really distorted face and say, "You really think so? My mum says I'm da handsomest guy in school!"
Yeah, just try to freak'em out. Be proud that you're you.
Heheh, or if they call you ugly, just be like, "Sorry, but you're not my type." and walk away.
Do whatever you can to have fun with life, man.

Zpower · 07-02-2004, 10:49 AM

Interesting I was just speaking to someone how people need to stop MISTREATING eachother. Just happens I stumbled upon this topic. Once I read it I was COMPLETELY saddened. For someone to have to come onto FORUM after having no one eles to turn to in life. Seeking comfort and advice well Im no psychologist though hopefully I can help.
First off the situation about your dad. I HIGHLY suggest binding this relantionship. By that I mean sitting down one day with him. Then tell him HOW YOU FEEL NOT about the way YOUR MOTHER FEELS OR ANYONE ELES. Just tell him how you feel about his and your relationship. Now Im NOT saying to TELL HIM OFF. Just in the calmiest manner explain your feelings to him. Let him know you LOVE HIM no matter why he may do or say. Tell him good things about YOUR LIFE and ask about his life. Try to build a STRONG relationship off of this. Now it might take a few times and few trys. Though I should work for the best.
Now for your school situation where should I start. School can make or break you really it can. ESPECIALLY if you dont have strong relationships with your family to turn to. First off concentrate on your GRADES most of all. Dont get down if you're the only one if class ACTUALLY WORKING. Because in a few years you'll be the ONLY ONE making BIG MONEY. Go home and STUDY as hard as you can to do good in your academics. Once your grades start soaring people will notice and probably be asking you for advice. Lend them advice go around and help others who are struggling. That is also a good way to make friendships. EVERYONE group of friends needs a "smart-guy".
Back to the friends subject if your friends arent treating your right. YOU DONT NEED THEM cause guess what. In a few years YOU WONT EVEN HAVE THEM ANYWAYS. Friends come a dime a dozen remeber that. Though if you really want to have a good friend. GO OUT AND MEET PEOPLE associate with people who LIKE YOU based on your TALENTS. Most of all dont get into the WRONG-CROWD. Just trying to "fit-in" this is a common mistake I see youths do. Then end up not happy in the environment they put themselves in.
Ok now the girl friend thing. What can I say girls arent as hard to mingle with as you may think. Even in some cases girls can be GREAT FRIENDS to you more than your male friends can. You see girls are very SENSITIVE they'll be by you when NO ONE ELES WILL. Most girls are loyal and if you are thier friend they'll make shure to do EVERYTHING they can to make you happy. If you're not happy they arent. Try to find a girl in your class. EVEN if you dont like her. Just talk to her tell her about how good she looks. Tell her she has a nice dress on or you like her hair. DONT BE AFRAID girls LOVE compliments the most. Sometimes you can get a girl to like you just by giving her a ton of compliments. Just dont be CHEESY. Hang around her once she gets to like you. Make a bond that no one can break. Then some time or another you two will become closer and closer. Hencing becoming a "couple".
Last but not least all I can say is DONT GIVE UP. If things seem slim to none. Just remember THINGS CHANGE and so will your life. Like I said get GOOD GRADES so you can excel in your classes. Learn something you're good at then go with it whatever it maybe. Dont be afraid to mingle with people because I guarantee they are just as much. Going to be afraid to talk to you as you are to them. By the way DONT TAKE INSULTS TO THE HEART OK. EVERYONE gets insulted sometime or another. Especially if you are in groups of peolpe you know. Just go with it and remember no matter what people may say. EVERYONE is EQUAL in thier own right and manner. Take each day as a learning experience and grow from it. It may get hard sometimes to stay focused on your goals in life. Though I 100% GUARANTEE if you stay focused on your goals life will OPEN up for you. Stay true to yourselve be BRAVE when mean people say things to you. Dont hestitate to let them know that they are no better than you.
Ok kid just try your best all you can do. Take whatever you want out of my advice. One day while playing catch with your kids in the backyard of your big house. While your wife is in the kitchen preparing dinner. You'll look back on your life and say hmm ZPOWER was right. Everything did work out just fine

. Good luck Im shure you'll be ok buddy. I've seen ALOT worse cases such as this. That also turned out to be great family guys and had a great life with A TON OF MONEY. Then all thier past friends were like WOW this guy did all this. Wish I could have been like him

.

Razz · 07-02-2004, 11:19 AM

Overall, Wolvamat ... you need Jesus.

About the girlfriend thing: Don't worry. Girl friends don't matter at this age, since the relationship will never last. I personally take dating seriously, and I see it as a way to find your life partner. I've had one girlfriend, but that was two/three years ago and it lasted two months. I personally wish it never happened. I'd love to be able to say that I've never had a girlfriend.

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07-02-2004, 05:16 AM	#1
wolvamat Senior Member Senior Member Join Date: Nov 2002 Location: Australia - NSW - Central coast Posts: 367 Post Thanks / Like Thanks (Given): 0 Thanks (Received): 0 Likes (Given): 0 Likes (Received): 0 Dislikes (Given): 0 Dislikes (Received): 0 Points: 0 Mentioned: 0 Post(s) Tagged: 0 Thread(s) Quoted: 0 Post(s)	Ok u probably have no idea what this topic is about so i will tell u... I havent been having a very good life at all and i have no one to turn to... so i thought i would tell u guys since i wont see u in real life. Ok so first and most hurting... i havent had a hug in 6 years. i get told im ugly just about every day... yes from girls... my friends are assholes i only like one of em. my dad is always swearing and argueing with me and calling me a dickhead saying i have no friends etc... never had a gf or even close to it... i cant even go into class and mind my own without someone comenting.. like the other day in p.e i sat down next to this girl and she like went can u please move over... though i was already like 1 metre away... i just get put down all the time about how ugly i am... and i never see my brother anymore cuz hes to buzy with his gf etc though we grew up with each other so he was like my best friend... so all i have is my mum cuz my dad is an asshole and even my mum dont like him... i just feel like poop, i have nother better to do then masturbate or come on here sometimes.. my life sucks.. i have no idea what i should do... i dread walking to the dinner table cuz i know my dad will just start an arguement and end up swearing at me. i dont know where to turn or what to do... i cant tell my mum or anyone how i feel.. i dont know what i should do.. Edited By wolvamat on July 02 2004 at 18:18 __________________ [img:sig_uid]http://www.boomspeed.com/wolvamat/brolysig.jpg[/img:sig_uid]

07-02-2004, 06:56 AM	#3
Evil-Blanka Senior Member Senior Member Join Date: Nov 2003 Posts: 1,549 Post Thanks / Like Thanks (Given): 0 Thanks (Received): 0 Likes (Given): 0 Likes (Received): 0 Dislikes (Given): 0 Dislikes (Received): 0 Points: 0 Mentioned: 0 Post(s) Tagged: 0 Thread(s) Quoted: 0 Post(s)	[quoteost_uid0="(~Snake~)"]Well I guess u should just ignore them.If they say ur ugly then ignore them.but don't tell on them because ppl will start calling u a tatletale if youdo.Trust me,my friend's little sister,she tatle's like mad and no1 basiclly likes her.[/quote] i guess you should get a make over or somthing dress like a thug or somthing or you could just take your fist and wack them on the head and when a girl say you ugly say suck mu nuts i bet she will be on you 24 7 thats how it is at my schoole i say get on them right now and they do i am a realy good looking guy whuahaha __________________ [img:sig_uid]http://www.chez.com/futuramazone/autres_img13.gif[/img:sig_uid]

07-02-2004, 07:02 AM	#4
Guest Posts: n/a Post Thanks / Like Thanks (Given): Thanks (Received): Likes (Given): Likes (Received): Dislikes (Given): Dislikes (Received): Points: 0 Mentioned: Post(s) Tagged: Thread(s) Quoted: Post(s)	[quoteost_uid0="Evil-Blanka"][quoteost_uid0="(_Snake_)"]Well I guess u should just ignore them.If they say ur ugly then ignore them.but don't tell on them because ppl will start calling u a tatletale if youdo.Trust me,my friend's little sister,she tatle's like mad and no1 basiclly likes her.[/quote] i guess you should get a make over or somthing dress like a thug or somthing or you could just take your fist and wack them on the head and when a girl say you ugly say suck mu nuts i bet she will be on you 24 7 thats how it is at my schoole i say get on them right now and they do i am a realy good looking guy whuahaha[/quote] Hahaha.I guess i would do the same thing whack them on the head.Thats wat I do wen i get furious.I get really mad and i start attacking them or jumo and the hittem.

07-02-2004, 10:03 AM	#5
alamgir Senior Member Senior Member Join Date: Jul 2002 Posts: 5,865 Post Thanks / Like Thanks (Given): 0 Thanks (Received): 0 Likes (Given): 0 Likes (Received): 0 Dislikes (Given): 0 Dislikes (Received): 0 Points: 0 Mentioned: 0 Post(s) Tagged: 0 Thread(s) Quoted: 0 Post(s)	The guys friggin depressed cos no one likes him. How the hell is ignoring people supposed to help. Well wolvamat I don't think anyone can help you there. Just be confident in yourself its not always looks that count, personality is more important. So just be confident, who knows something might happen. __________________ [img:sig_uid]http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v209/alamgir/advancedborder-ice.jpg[/img:sig_uid] When your the number one public enemy, who do you turn to?

07-02-2004, 06:19 AM	#2
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07-02-2004, 10:10 AM	#6
VampireNinja Senior Member Senior Member Join Date: Oct 2003 Location: Miami,FL Posts: 1,536 Post Thanks / Like Thanks (Given): 0 Thanks (Received): 0 Likes (Given): 0 Likes (Received): 0 Dislikes (Given): 0 Dislikes (Received): 0 Points: 0 Mentioned: 0 Post(s) Tagged: 0 Thread(s) Quoted: 0 Post(s)	Damn dude..Feel sorry for ya..but anyways..Be a pimp..Ya noe..Start making a job..And then dress up all cool with Converse and stuff.. Just follow SYBRD and youll be alright.. BTW..I remember you from long time ago..Very long time ago here on SFO.. P.S..Ima tell SYBRD to post here..Hold up.. __________________ [img:sig_uid]http://www.usounds.com/images/gorillaz.jpg[/img:sig_uid]

07-02-2004, 10:22 AM	#7
PSYCHO Senior Member Senior Member Join Date: Oct 2002 Location: Ohio Posts: 2,368 Post Thanks / Like Thanks (Given): 0 Thanks (Received): 0 Likes (Given): 0 Likes (Received): 0 Dislikes (Given): 0 Dislikes (Received): 0 Points: 0 Mentioned: 0 Post(s) Tagged: 0 Thread(s) Quoted: 0 Post(s)	thats messed up man...i really cant help u there.. i know a person thats exactly like u and last time in class this girl was comin close to me and he started comin close to the girl and the girl was like move away from me and he said why he's close to u too.. and they started to argue and all but at the end the point was that the kid didnt back off well sometimes he does but he dont look like he really cares..no1 likes him cuz he twitches all the time and they get freaked out by that lol. So u shouldnt back off when all these ppl come talk poop to u, just be u and tell them if they dont like u why they talk to u or tell them if youdont have nothin nice to say dont say nothin at all.. well good luck with ur life man.. and uhm.. dont commit suicide, ur family will regret it (i said this cuz from ur post i picked up ur really sad and u might do something u dont want to really..) ??? __________________ ARSENAL 4 LIFE -

07-02-2004, 10:28 AM	#8
Razz Senior Member Senior Member Join Date: Sep 2001 Location: Your Mind . . . Posts: 1,769 Post Thanks / Like Thanks (Given): 0 Thanks (Received): 0 Likes (Given): 0 Likes (Received): 0 Dislikes (Given): 0 Dislikes (Received): 0 Points: 0 Mentioned: 0 Post(s) Tagged: 0 Thread(s) Quoted: 0 Post(s)	When a girl calls you ugly, make a really distorted face and say, "You really think so? My mum says I'm da handsomest guy in school!" Yeah, just try to freak'em out. Be proud that you're you. Heheh, or if they call you ugly, just be like, "Sorry, but you're not my type." and walk away. Do whatever you can to have fun with life, man.

07-02-2004, 10:49 AM	#9
Zpower Senior Member Senior Member Join Date: Nov 2003 Posts: 1,038 Post Thanks / Like Thanks (Given): 0 Thanks (Received): 0 Likes (Given): 0 Likes (Received): 0 Dislikes (Given): 0 Dislikes (Received): 0 Points: 0 Mentioned: 0 Post(s) Tagged: 0 Thread(s) Quoted: 0 Post(s)	Interesting I was just speaking to someone how people need to stop MISTREATING eachother. Just happens I stumbled upon this topic. Once I read it I was COMPLETELY saddened. For someone to have to come onto FORUM after having no one eles to turn to in life. Seeking comfort and advice well Im no psychologist though hopefully I can help. First off the situation about your dad. I HIGHLY suggest binding this relantionship. By that I mean sitting down one day with him. Then tell him HOW YOU FEEL NOT about the way YOUR MOTHER FEELS OR ANYONE ELES. Just tell him how you feel about his and your relationship. Now Im NOT saying to TELL HIM OFF. Just in the calmiest manner explain your feelings to him. Let him know you LOVE HIM no matter why he may do or say. Tell him good things about YOUR LIFE and ask about his life. Try to build a STRONG relationship off of this. Now it might take a few times and few trys. Though I should work for the best. Now for your school situation where should I start. School can make or break you really it can. ESPECIALLY if you dont have strong relationships with your family to turn to. First off concentrate on your GRADES most of all. Dont get down if you're the only one if class ACTUALLY WORKING. Because in a few years you'll be the ONLY ONE making BIG MONEY. Go home and STUDY as hard as you can to do good in your academics. Once your grades start soaring people will notice and probably be asking you for advice. Lend them advice go around and help others who are struggling. That is also a good way to make friendships. EVERYONE group of friends needs a "smart-guy". Back to the friends subject if your friends arent treating your right. YOU DONT NEED THEM cause guess what. In a few years YOU WONT EVEN HAVE THEM ANYWAYS. Friends come a dime a dozen remeber that. Though if you really want to have a good friend. GO OUT AND MEET PEOPLE associate with people who LIKE YOU based on your TALENTS. Most of all dont get into the WRONG-CROWD. Just trying to "fit-in" this is a common mistake I see youths do. Then end up not happy in the environment they put themselves in. Ok now the girl friend thing. What can I say girls arent as hard to mingle with as you may think. Even in some cases girls can be GREAT FRIENDS to you more than your male friends can. You see girls are very SENSITIVE they'll be by you when NO ONE ELES WILL. Most girls are loyal and if you are thier friend they'll make shure to do EVERYTHING they can to make you happy. If you're not happy they arent. Try to find a girl in your class. EVEN if you dont like her. Just talk to her tell her about how good she looks. Tell her she has a nice dress on or you like her hair. DONT BE AFRAID girls LOVE compliments the most. Sometimes you can get a girl to like you just by giving her a ton of compliments. Just dont be CHEESY. Hang around her once she gets to like you. Make a bond that no one can break. Then some time or another you two will become closer and closer. Hencing becoming a "couple". Last but not least all I can say is DONT GIVE UP. If things seem slim to none. Just remember THINGS CHANGE and so will your life. Like I said get GOOD GRADES so you can excel in your classes. Learn something you're good at then go with it whatever it maybe. Dont be afraid to mingle with people because I guarantee they are just as much. Going to be afraid to talk to you as you are to them. By the way DONT TAKE INSULTS TO THE HEART OK. EVERYONE gets insulted sometime or another. Especially if you are in groups of peolpe you know. Just go with it and remember no matter what people may say. EVERYONE is EQUAL in thier own right and manner. Take each day as a learning experience and grow from it. It may get hard sometimes to stay focused on your goals in life. Though I 100% GUARANTEE if you stay focused on your goals life will OPEN up for you. Stay true to yourselve be BRAVE when mean people say things to you. Dont hestitate to let them know that they are no better than you. Ok kid just try your best all you can do. Take whatever you want out of my advice. One day while playing catch with your kids in the backyard of your big house. While your wife is in the kitchen preparing dinner. You'll look back on your life and say hmm ZPOWER was right. Everything did work out just fine . Good luck Im shure you'll be ok buddy. I've seen ALOT worse cases such as this. That also turned out to be great family guys and had a great life with A TON OF MONEY. Then all thier past friends were like WOW this guy did all this. Wish I could have been like him . __________________ [img:sig_uid]http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v84/Foster5k/jillandz.gif[/img:sig_uid] <s>rewopzmaI</s>

07-02-2004, 11:19 AM	#10
Razz Senior Member Senior Member Join Date: Sep 2001 Location: Your Mind . . . Posts: 1,769 Post Thanks / Like Thanks (Given): 0 Thanks (Received): 0 Likes (Given): 0 Likes (Received): 0 Dislikes (Given): 0 Dislikes (Received): 0 Points: 0 Mentioned: 0 Post(s) Tagged: 0 Thread(s) Quoted: 0 Post(s)	Overall, Wolvamat ... you need Jesus. About the girlfriend thing: Don't worry. Girl friends don't matter at this age, since the relationship will never last. I personally take dating seriously, and I see it as a way to find your life partner. I've had one girlfriend, but that was two/three years ago and it lasted two months. I personally wish it never happened. I'd love to be able to say that I've never had a girlfriend.