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I can't believe I didn't see this sooner... Well here's some advice from a woman to a boy. (pfft!)

The situation is that you can't decide over her and trade school right? Look. You're going to have to choose the thing that'll help you BOTH, even if it is painful (especially if you want to get married eventually) . If you decide to go to trade school, tell her that. If she says that she won't be your girlfriend anymore or something like that, then she isn't really in love with you, or is really desperate to have her way. If she accepts it without fighting or anything, then you'll just have to wait it out and see what happens. If she truly loves you, she'll wait for you, and if you truly love her (and I can tell you do) then you should wait for her as well. Otherwise, that love is hopeless.