man........ life will always be unfair........ yo don,t listen to people like that....... I got turned down a lot too before cuz I was always on my own, didn,t wan to make any friends.........
what happened was one guy thought I was a guy that wouldn,t replied if he would attack me and he did and I ended up kicking his ass and became like this huge popular guy lol......
I'm not telling U to go in a fight, but just be yourself, if they don't like U for who U are then don,t feel sorry for yourself, fell sorry for them for not knowing U......
yo I got huge lips man lol.......I hated them......people called me every name about it........ until, I went out with this gurl and she was like, oh he's like the best kisser and I became a ladie's man.......
anyways, make your life with what U have........not with things U wish U had........
your dad is hard on U? I have the same problem....... what I do is ignore him........he insults me? I leave the room....... I know, people will say, it's not the best thing to do but when U have a father who wants nuthing to do with ya, U wouldn't say that.......
Hope that helps man