Interesting I was just speaking to someone how people need to stop MISTREATING eachother. Just happens I stumbled upon this topic. Once I read it I was COMPLETELY saddened. For someone to have to come onto FORUM after having no one eles to turn to in life. Seeking comfort and advice well Im no psychologist though hopefully I can help.
First off the situation about your dad. I HIGHLY suggest binding this relantionship. By that I mean sitting down one day with him. Then tell him HOW YOU FEEL NOT about the way YOUR MOTHER FEELS OR ANYONE ELES. Just tell him how you feel about his and your relationship. Now Im NOT saying to TELL HIM OFF. Just in the calmiest manner explain your feelings to him. Let him know you LOVE HIM no matter why he may do or say. Tell him good things about YOUR LIFE and ask about his life. Try to build a STRONG relationship off of this. Now it might take a few times and few trys. Though I should work for the best.
Now for your school situation where should I start. School can make or break you really it can. ESPECIALLY if you dont have strong relationships with your family to turn to. First off concentrate on your GRADES most of all. Dont get down if you're the only one if class ACTUALLY WORKING. Because in a few years you'll be the ONLY ONE making BIG MONEY. Go home and STUDY as hard as you can to do good in your academics. Once your grades start soaring people will notice and probably be asking you for advice. Lend them advice go around and help others who are struggling. That is also a good way to make friendships. EVERYONE group of friends needs a "smart-guy".
Back to the friends subject if your friends arent treating your right. YOU DONT NEED THEM cause guess what. In a few years YOU WONT EVEN HAVE THEM ANYWAYS. Friends come a dime a dozen remeber that. Though if you really want to have a good friend. GO OUT AND MEET PEOPLE associate with people who LIKE YOU based on your TALENTS. Most of all dont get into the WRONG-CROWD. Just trying to "fit-in" this is a common mistake I see youths do. Then end up not happy in the environment they put themselves in.
Ok now the girl friend thing. What can I say girls arent as hard to mingle with as you may think. Even in some cases girls can be GREAT FRIENDS to you more than your male friends can. You see girls are very SENSITIVE they'll be by you when NO ONE ELES WILL. Most girls are loyal and if you are thier friend they'll make shure to do EVERYTHING they can to make you happy. If you're not happy they arent. Try to find a girl in your class. EVEN if you dont like her. Just talk to her tell her about how good she looks. Tell her she has a nice dress on or you like her hair. DONT BE AFRAID girls LOVE compliments the most. Sometimes you can get a girl to like you just by giving her a ton of compliments. Just dont be CHEESY. Hang around her once she gets to like you. Make a bond that no one can break. Then some time or another you two will become closer and closer. Hencing becoming a "couple".
Last but not least all I can say is DONT GIVE UP. If things seem slim to none. Just remember THINGS CHANGE and so will your life. Like I said get GOOD GRADES so you can excel in your classes. Learn something you're good at then go with it whatever it maybe. Dont be afraid to mingle with people because I guarantee they are just as much. Going to be afraid to talk to you as you are to them. By the way DONT TAKE INSULTS TO THE HEART OK. EVERYONE gets insulted sometime or another. Especially if you are in groups of peolpe you know. Just go with it and remember no matter what people may say. EVERYONE is EQUAL in thier own right and manner. Take each day as a learning experience and grow from it. It may get hard sometimes to stay focused on your goals in life. Though I 100% GUARANTEE if you stay focused on your goals life will OPEN up for you. Stay true to yourselve be BRAVE when mean people say things to you. Dont hestitate to let them know that they are no better than you.
Ok kid just try your best all you can do. Take whatever you want out of my advice. One day while playing catch with your kids in the backyard of your big house. While your wife is in the kitchen preparing dinner. You'll look back on your life and say hmm ZPOWER was right. Everything did work out just fine
. Good luck Im shure you'll be ok buddy. I've seen ALOT worse cases such as this. That also turned out to be great family guys and had a great life with A TON OF MONEY. Then all thier past friends were like WOW this guy did all this. Wish I could have been like him
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