naw dont give up yet....
How about if you can pick the type of game you want before you host... like TAG OR NON TAG...then if you pick tag then all of your options can only be:
1 on 1 tag
2 on 1 tag
2 on 2 tag
level: up to 2
helpers: on/off
timer
n/off
when they host games it should have a different font color like RED for tag and YELLOW for non tag....
Non tag matches should only havew the option to pick a classic 1 on 1 battle with levels up to 2 helpers on/off and timer on/off
buT I THINK THATS TOO MUCH WORK LOL...so i can dream on...