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ost_uid0="Shinatsu"]we've been seeing each other for about 3 years, oh I make a spit load of money each week (around a $1000). but you gotta understand I want my lady to look good, but I afraid if I man up and shine all over her that I will lose her. U guys get what I'm saying right?[/quote]
Yo i understand wat your saying..
You love her and you dont want to lose her..
and if i was you.. i would do the same thing too..
but, then you got to realize..
Is it ok for her to walk all over you..
I mean 200 out of 1000 is basically nothin..
especailly if you want her to look good lol..
My only advice.. seriously.. is that
Wait a few more weeks.. before you do anything....
i mean.. she could only be with you cause you giving her money.. and boi, i dont think you want that.. its a bad feeling.. knowing someones using you..
but after a few weeks slowly start to confront her..
Not just one day to go outright.. but like start asking questions.. that will lead to your point..(this may take a couple dayz or a couple of weeks.)
but thats my advice.. i mean, you dont have to follow it.. cause you could end up breaking up with her.. and i dont want that on my head.. Good luck playa ???