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Saijin_Ryu · 04-05-2004, 10:25 AM

Ok im gonna try and give the all the advice i can on relationships that i have picked up over my years and try and see how it could help you in your dilema.

First off, instead of emailing him, why not give him a phone call to see how he is, its alot easier to say **** like that in an email rather then over the phone. And when you get to talking to him dont be too pressuring and ask him simple questions like : How was your day, what have you got planned, and see how he reacts. Then if you feel that your in a conversation where it feels that he wont start getting frustrated or an attitude, try and talk to him about your relationship and his input towards it, also try and show how your trying to keep your relationship strong.
You want him to open up over the phone rather then in an email, its much luss confusing and is more 1 to 1.
Try and also get to the bottom of why he's been acting so weird and why he has to put a mask on infront of his other friends.

04-05-2004, 10:25 AM	#2
Saijin_Ryu Senior Member Senior Member Join Date: Mar 2003 Location: Somewhere in England Posts: 4,082 Post Thanks / Like Thanks (Given): Thanks (Received): Likes (Given): Likes (Received): Dislikes (Given): Dislikes (Received): Points: 0 Mentioned: 0 Post(s) Tagged: 0 Thread(s) Quoted: 0 Post(s)	Ok im gonna try and give the all the advice i can on relationships that i have picked up over my years and try and see how it could help you in your dilema. First off, instead of emailing him, why not give him a phone call to see how he is, its alot easier to say **** like that in an email rather then over the phone. And when you get to talking to him dont be too pressuring and ask him simple questions like : How was your day, what have you got planned, and see how he reacts. Then if you feel that your in a conversation where it feels that he wont start getting frustrated or an attitude, try and talk to him about your relationship and his input towards it, also try and show how your trying to keep your relationship strong. You want him to open up over the phone rather then in an email, its much luss confusing and is more 1 to 1. Try and also get to the bottom of why he's been acting so weird and why he has to put a mask on infront of his other friends.