[SSJKarma]

you just answered yourself roll !

you can't CONTROL what you do not believe in.

things can happen, but if you don't believe in them, how can you control them ?

as in, you can see things hapenning coming from you. but how do you control what you don't care about or even believe in ?

how can i give an example of this tho...
ok... let me try this one...

Your friend is in danger...
you lift the car just enough for him to get out of it.
when you try to redo it later, you cannot do it. the car is too damn heavy for you !
why could you do it the first time and not the second ?
because the first time you believe in being able to do it.
but again, as long as one think he won't suceed, he will never suceed !

oh damn, this is too hard to explain !