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saw this thread yesterday... couldn't say a thing !

listen, i never really had any problems with girls (for i never had a girl in my life) but many times have i helped my friend understand mroe of what he needed to do in order to succeed ! he... also is the one giving me th estrenght to go on in life ! he's been my friend for the last 14 years !

anyway... not about me but about you !
i would say, it is never too late for anything !
its hard, no one can say you anything to change that. but its still possible for you to return back to her, as long as you didn't screw it up by hitting her !

WORDS can hurt people's feelings, but they are just words there will always have soemthing you can do to go back and bring things like they were before. if i were you (which i'm not) i would do anything to get back on that mistakes ! otherwise i would be like you, it would get me nuts !

as for the part not being yourself. well, we're always ourselves, no matter how hard we try to be someone else, we always are ourselves. its just that we try to change in a way where people would like us more ! but in the end we always return to ourselves !

so i say, no need for a search for yourselves, cause if do that's only because you lose sight of what is really needed at the moment ! but if you did, your friends (me and perhaps some others) will simply tell you the way to return !

its your choice now to see if you take our advice and opinions !
whatever path you decide to choose after this, i wish you luck on it !