Ok u probably have no idea what this topic is about so i will tell u...

I havent been having a very good life at all and i have no one to turn to... so i thought i would tell u guys since i wont see u in real life.

Ok so first and most hurting... i havent had a hug in 6 years.
i get told im ugly just about every day... yes from girls...
my friends are assholes i only like one of em. my dad is always swearing and argueing with me and calling me a dickhead saying i have no friends etc... never had a gf or even close to it... i cant even go into class and mind my own without someone comenting.. like the other day in p.e i sat down next to this girl and she like went can u please move over... though i was already like 1 metre away... i just get put down all the time about how ugly i am... and i never see my brother anymore cuz hes to buzy with his gf etc though we grew up with each other so he was like my best friend... so all i have is my mum cuz my dad is an asshole and even my mum dont like him... i just feel like poop, i have nother better to do then masturbate or come on here sometimes..
my life sucks.. i have no idea what i should do...
i dread walking to the dinner table cuz i know my dad will just start an arguement and end up swearing at me. i dont know where to turn or what to do... i cant tell my mum or anyone how i feel.. i dont know what i should do..



Edited By wolvamat on July 02 2004 at 18:18

Well I guess u should just ignore them.If they say ur ugly then ignore them.but don't tell on them because ppl will start calling u a tatletale if youdo.Trust me,my friend's little sister,she tatle's like mad and no1 basiclly likes her.

[quote:post_uid0="(~Snake~)"]Well I guess u should just ignore them.If they say ur ugly then ignore them.but don't tell on them because ppl will start calling u a tatletale if youdo.Trust me,my friend's little sister,she tatle's like mad and no1 basiclly likes her.[/quote]
i guess you should get a make over or somthing dress like a thug or somthing or you could just take your fist and wack them on the head and when a girl say you ugly say suck mu nuts i bet she will be on you 24 7 thats how it is at my schoole i say get on them right now and they do i am a realy good looking guy whuahaha

[quote:post_uid0="Evil-Blanka"][quote:post_uid0="(_Snake_)"]Well I guess u should just ignore them.If they say ur ugly then ignore them.but don't tell on them because ppl will start calling u a tatletale if youdo.Trust me,my friend's little sister,she tatle's like mad and no1 basiclly likes her.[/quote]
i guess you should get a make over or somthing dress like a thug or somthing or you could just take your fist and wack them on the head and when a girl say you ugly say suck mu nuts i bet she will be on you 24 7 thats how it is at my schoole i say get on them right now and they do i am a realy good looking guy whuahaha[/quote]
Hahaha.I guess i would do the same thing whack them on the head.Thats wat I do wen i get furious.I get really mad and i start attacking them or jumo and the hittem.

The guys friggin depressed cos no one likes him. How the hell is ignoring people supposed to help. Well wolvamat I don't think anyone can help you there. Just be confident in yourself its not always looks that count, personality is more important. So just be confident, who knows something might happen.

thats messed up man...i really cant help u there.. i know a person thats exactly like u and last time in class this girl was comin close to me and he started comin close to the girl and the girl was like move away from me and he said why he's close to u too.. and they started to argue and all but at the end the point was that the kid didnt back off well sometimes he does but he dont look like he really cares..no1 likes him cuz he twitches all the time and they get freaked out by that lol.
So u shouldnt back off when all these ppl come talk poop to u, just be u and tell them if they dont like u why they talk to u
or tell them if youdont have nothin nice to say dont say nothin at all..
well good luck with ur life man.. and uhm.. dont commit suicide, ur family will regret it (i said this cuz from ur post i picked up ur really sad and u might do something u dont want to really..) ???

When a girl calls you ugly, make a really distorted face and say, "You really think so? My mum says I'm da handsomest guy in school!"
Yeah, just try to freak'em out. Be proud that you're you.
Heheh, or if they call you ugly, just be like, "Sorry, but you're not my type." and walk away.
Do whatever you can to have fun with life, man.

Interesting I was just speaking to someone how people need to stop MISTREATING eachother. Just happens I stumbled upon this topic. Once I read it I was COMPLETELY saddened. For someone to have to come onto FORUM after having no one eles to turn to in life. Seeking comfort and advice well Im no psychologist though hopefully I can help.
First off the situation about your dad. I HIGHLY suggest binding this relantionship. By that I mean sitting down one day with him. Then tell him HOW YOU FEEL NOT about the way YOUR MOTHER FEELS OR ANYONE ELES. Just tell him how you feel about his and your relationship. Now Im NOT saying to TELL HIM OFF. Just in the calmiest manner explain your feelings to him. Let him know you LOVE HIM no matter why he may do or say. Tell him good things about YOUR LIFE and ask about his life. Try to build a STRONG relationship off of this. Now it might take a few times and few trys. Though I should work for the best.
Now for your school situation where should I start. School can make or break you really it can. ESPECIALLY if you dont have strong relationships with your family to turn to. First off concentrate on your GRADES most of all. Dont get down if you're the only one if class ACTUALLY WORKING. Because in a few years you'll be the ONLY ONE making BIG MONEY. Go home and STUDY as hard as you can to do good in your academics. Once your grades start soaring people will notice and probably be asking you for advice. Lend them advice go around and help others who are struggling. That is also a good way to make friendships. EVERYONE group of friends needs a "smart-guy".
Back to the friends subject if your friends arent treating your right. YOU DONT NEED THEM cause guess what. In a few years YOU WONT EVEN HAVE THEM ANYWAYS. Friends come a dime a dozen remeber that. Though if you really want to have a good friend. GO OUT AND MEET PEOPLE associate with people who LIKE YOU based on your TALENTS. Most of all dont get into the WRONG-CROWD. Just trying to "fit-in" this is a common mistake I see youths do. Then end up not happy in the environment they put themselves in.
Ok now the girl friend thing. What can I say girls arent as hard to mingle with as you may think. Even in some cases girls can be GREAT FRIENDS to you more than your male friends can. You see girls are very SENSITIVE they'll be by you when NO ONE ELES WILL. Most girls are loyal and if you are thier friend they'll make shure to do EVERYTHING they can to make you happy. If you're not happy they arent. Try to find a girl in your class. EVEN if you dont like her. Just talk to her tell her about how good she looks. Tell her she has a nice dress on or you like her hair. DONT BE AFRAID girls LOVE compliments the most. Sometimes you can get a girl to like you just by giving her a ton of compliments. Just dont be CHEESY. Hang around her once she gets to like you. Make a bond that no one can break. Then some time or another you two will become closer and closer. Hencing becoming a "couple".
Last but not least all I can say is DONT GIVE UP. If things seem slim to none. Just remember THINGS CHANGE and so will your life. Like I said get GOOD GRADES so you can excel in your classes. Learn something you're good at then go with it whatever it maybe. Dont be afraid to mingle with people because I guarantee they are just as much. Going to be afraid to talk to you as you are to them. By the way DONT TAKE INSULTS TO THE HEART OK. EVERYONE gets insulted sometime or another. Especially if you are in groups of peolpe you know. Just go with it and remember no matter what people may say. EVERYONE is EQUAL in thier own right and manner. Take each day as a learning experience and grow from it. It may get hard sometimes to stay focused on your goals in life. Though I 100% GUARANTEE if you stay focused on your goals life will OPEN up for you. Stay true to yourselve be BRAVE when mean people say things to you. Dont hestitate to let them know that they are no better than you.
Ok kid just try your best all you can do. Take whatever you want out of my advice. One day while playing catch with your kids in the backyard of your big house. While your wife is in the kitchen preparing dinner. You'll look back on your life and say hmm ZPOWER was right. Everything did work out just fine :). Good luck Im shure you'll be ok buddy. I've seen ALOT worse cases such as this. That also turned out to be great family guys and had a great life with A TON OF MONEY. Then all thier past friends were like WOW this guy did all this. Wish I could have been like him :).

Overall, Wolvamat ... you need Jesus.

About the girlfriend thing: Don't worry. Girl friends don't matter at this age, since the relationship will never last. I personally take dating seriously, and I see it as a way to find your life partner. I've had one girlfriend, but that was two/three years ago and it lasted two months. I personally wish it never happened. I'd love to be able to say that I've never had a girlfriend.

hey dude im sorry that really sucks i remember when you used to be on when I was on my other character I cant really give much advice except dont do anything stupid like kill yourself

Actually my second choice...You should just curse them out

sometimes I say shut the flip up!Or sometimes if they get me

really mad...I just tell every1 yo this person was born wit 2

mammas...Like u his two mammas did u kno wat to give him

birth...I dunno I just say some stuff like that hehe :D

man........ life will always be unfair........ yo don,t listen to people like that....... I got turned down a lot too before cuz I was always on my own, didn,t wan to make any friends.........

what happened was one guy thought I was a guy that wouldn,t replied if he would attack me and he did and I ended up kicking his ass and became like this huge popular guy lol......

I'm not telling U to go in a fight, but just be yourself, if they don't like U for who U are then don,t feel sorry for yourself, fell sorry for them for not knowing U......

yo I got huge lips man lol.......I hated them......people called me every name about it........ until, I went out with this gurl and she was like, oh he's like the best kisser and I became a ladie's man.......

anyways, make your life with what U have........not with things U wish U had........

your dad is hard on U? I have the same problem....... what I do is ignore him........he insults me? I leave the room....... I know, people will say, it's not the best thing to do but when U have a father who wants nuthing to do with ya, U wouldn't say that.......

Hope that helps man ;)

Ok peoples im back... just thought id give u an update on things...

basically everything is still the same and another thing is my friends are like super annoying now... i cant sit down for 5 secs without one of them touching me... pushing me or somthing...

so basically nothings changed... ummm OH YEAH! BIG THING THAT HAPPENED!

Ok my mum hasnt smoked since like 5 years before i was born...

the other day i went out the backyard and she didnt see me... and she was like behind the boat smoking... i made noise to see what she would do and she like threw it down and stepped on it then picked it back up and threw it over the fence really fast...
she thought i didnt see her... but this explains why she buys so much chewing gum... i cant bring myself to tell her i saw her... i dont know what the reaction will be... i dont wanna make her cry or anything..

oh and by the way its my birthday on monday so... i guess ill try be happy :confused:

by the way what happened to my banners? they aint workin



Edited By wolvamat on 1094301594

ur sorta like me but without the ugly thing an its not my dad but my mums gf an he its not as bad as dat and i av had a hug an i dont masterbate ok maybe ur not anythin like me but ok man woteva u do dont kill ur selfur if always inside i sugest u get out more meet ppl make friends try make ur life much beta an stuf beta try talkin to ur dad but that mite jus make him treat u like poop even more cus i told my mum that i dont like her bf an i talked with him but he stil the same man i realy dont no wot to say sos



Edited By mysticken on 1094327569

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go and see if you can buy some of the sh!t right there, give yourself a make over......
i'm starting a site soon, going to be called mac-a-namics
teach ya ma skillz....
lolz
no but seriously lolz.....see it doesnt matter how you look, it depends the level of friends or who you know...for example
50 cents, LLoyd banks are one of the UGLYEST bitches in the world...but they still get GIRLS...
1. they're rich
2. they're famous
3. they have connections

if you have friends who are lets say "famous" or "popular" it wont matter the way you look, it'll depend on the way you act per say.......
go to those sites.....or go to the actual store get your self a re-do
theres someone out there for everyone, theres over 21332121313 people in the world, there's bound to be someone there for you =/

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go to the damn site and get your f!cking self some new clothes and wear them right....[/quote]
oh god no. the LAST thing this world needs is another wanabe gangsta baller.

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^^^Man, I thought you were cooler than that. >.c but thanks anyway.

oh eah, nice contredition you got going there, you spew "be yourself" statments yet you lable me as uncool for "being myself"

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[color=#000000:post_uid12]That is one of the saddest stories I've ever heard wolvamat. (cries) All I can say to help is this:

1: Please don't commit suicide(I know you never said you were gonna commit suicide but people always think that is the only thing for them to do)
2: If your dad is abusing you then call a child abuse service
3: Talk to your mom alot about your life
4: Talk to your brother about your life
5: Try to hurry and talk to your bro the best way you can so you can at least prevent him from goin out with his gf for at least one or two days
6: Don't beleive what those other girls tell you. One way that you believe that you are ugly is because the girls say it. Believe what you think you are.
7: Be yourself
8: If your friends are such assholes then they might not be a friend to you
9: Try to talk to someone wo will give you great advice
10: Try to make your life better

I am sorry if this is not enough advice, but that's all I've got to say. Your life just makes me too sad and this is all the advice I have for you.[/color:post_uid12]



Edited By gameboymaster on 1094321747

lmao u quik to flame titan anywho the guy going through teen problems maybe as an adult his life will get better..



Edited By _dmx_ on 1094322714

Just be who u r, i'm sure you'll make some new friends. Just stay positive.



Edited By alamgir on 1094325682

[quote:post_uid0="shy_gurL21"]man just feel good about urself..have a lil self confidence.. make friends with people who will accept u for who and wat u r.. not bcuz ur fn rich. and about the gurls......don't worry about them yet...i'm sure there's someone out there for u. try to get involved in school, like sports...band..watever

the dad situation..try to talk it out with him.. keep tryin.. maybe he'll listen to u[/quote]
if my dad ever tryed some crap like that wit me i would kick his ass well my real dad we are real close my step dad hell no he say somthing i dont like i will just hit him in his mouth and beat his ass no lie you might think that is crazy but i will never do anything like that to any one but him i hate him man i just hate the man 1 time he busted in my roome wile i was on he phone and then i was like why you bust in here like that then he said cuz i can then i was like cuz you cana thats when i just beat the mess out of him he and nothing t o me he is just another person around the house my real parents i love not his big ugly ass

[quote:post_uid0="lilkrisd"]Wow, after reading that it tells me that u must be one ugly looser and the only reason ppl are telling u good things is because they want u to stop posting this crap

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uhh no your a flucking dumbass, lilkrisd

and yeah i ust flamed and that is waht u just did to a guy who is downon his luck and seememly about to commit suicide and thats what u say, u really are a fliping dumbass.