[quote:post_uid0="viper2040"]The Con side is looking at how it is practiced as a majority around the world. Thats not a good view to take in this discussion--we're looking at why people in the USA and or Britain and or canada get married; the standard of living and treatment of women in places like these is much higher than elsewhere. Whether marriage is abused most of the time is besides the point; what matters is how it will be used by the people in this discussion[/quote]
Yes that is what I was getting at with Tark earlier...now the whole discussion is getting out of hand.

well I think that marriage actually gives a little boost to life! Its better to be married than to be lonely all the time but then again the lonely ppl can always be pimp!

umm pimping is good. :laugh:

[quote:post_uid0="TarkanX"]Then why get married? If you say you trully love eachother, and you proved it by making babies, why get married?[/quote]
yep that's true.........yo U don't need to go to church to marry a gurl to have it on paper ..........I mean U could just give her the damn ring and that's it or just go out with the gurl and that's it........I mean what's the difference........as long as U love the gurl and U wanna spend your whole life with her and give her kids, then there is no need for marriage........ok marriage is a religious thing and some are more religious then others and want to respect the tradition or whatever but me ok I'm in religion a lot, I go to church once in a while, I know about marriage and all.........look my parents were married, they divorced at the time I was 3 and then they got back together but they didn't get married again.........and they never broke up since.........anyway.........for me marriage is just a big waste of time...........and money :biggrin:

This is what i think.
if you truly love someone...then dont marry them...you dont need to get married to show love and affection. Their is no bennifit to being married.(unless your a woman who wants to kill thier husband to get their insurance money).

[quote:post_uid0="montalvo"]This is what i think.
if you truly love someone...then dont marry them...you dont need to get married to show love and affection. Their is no bennifit to being married.(unless your a woman who wants to kill thier husband to get their insurance money).[/quote]
exactly.......especially about the insurance part lol :biggrin:

you dont have to get married, but by the same token you dont have to tell the woman you love her. Its a symbol of commitment and love

Actually if u make babies before u get married and u are a deeply religios christian, you do have a chance of getting kicked out of your church! Thats what happened to my mom when she gave birth to me.

haha well it's okay because she gave a birth to a great man, steventhebol! *cough*

[quote:post_uid0="steventhebol"]Actually if u make babies before u get married and u are a deeply religios christian, you do have a chance of getting kicked out of your church! Thats what happened to my mom when she gave birth to me.[/quote]
Thats true steven,but I think the reason she might of said she was almost kicked out of her chruch is because it's a desgrace to be pregnant before marriage in the christian world...

I'm gonna let you kiddies in on something. The ones who believe in marriage, and religion for that matter.

Religion is just a marketing scam, and it always will be. The only reason people still get married, is because advertisers sell marriage to women reading magazines, and watching movies.

Now you might ask me, "why Tantum, why would they bother?". I'll tell you why. People spend Billions of dollars on weddings EVERY YEAR!! If the weddings stop, how many companies will go out of buisiness? alot. People make money off of weddings, and that's the only reason they are advertised.

Materialist scum make me sick, and they all can go fuk themselves.

Your right about marriage people do make money off that bro.

How is me believing in a supreme being a scam explain that Tantum...

I didn't say that. Believing in organized religion is buying into a scam.

Because Jesus is almighty, but he needs money! He needs YOUR money!!

Tantum remind me to smack you around if I ever see you on the online game...