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[quote:post_uid0="Orlando0"]I'm with Kester. It's stupid really. End the suffering before it starts? BAH! Excuses. Let it live and put it in adoption or something. Abortion? That's for wusses, losers and idiots. It's your fault if you have the baby.
Heck, it could live a good life even if you are the worst parents on earth.[/quote] excuse me? wusses losers and idiotS? wait- you're talkinga bout the parents. yet you dont mention anywhere the welfare of the baby. its their fault yes. but is it the baby's? should he or she live in a ife that was uncalled for and yet unloved for a stupid mistake the parents made? thats very selfish. not only do you continue to live a terrible life, but you bring another human being with you. fact: only 15% of all people put on adoption ever get adopted. so, if you put it on adoption, there is a 15% chance he/she will ever find a home. there is an 85% chance he or she will live a cold, parentless life. people who never get adopted live terrible lives, nd if you get the luck of GETTING adopted, there is still the possiblity of getting a terrible adopted parent, one who beats you, or even one who physically exploits you. Quote:
the countless teen pregnacies, unprotected births, and rapes. what is the basis behind abortion? to give up a fetus you cant care for. its not "because i have the money, have the time, have the space, and have the love, but just dont want to give it." its not like that. fact: 38% of teen mothers give there baby up for abortion. i didnt say millionare mothers, i said TEEN mothers. what this implys is under 18, unable to work and still in school. THAT IS NOT THE LIFE YOU WANT TO LIVE. thats not the life you want your child to live, eigther. adoption? i already explained that. kester, i do beleive you are a bible beleive, no? so, you would beleive in the devine after life... right? think of it this way. you can eigther bring the baby down to earth, or he/she can chill in heaven for a bit longer. :plain: Fact: 54% of all abortion-ees are under the federal poverty level. that meens they're poor. now, when you're a poor teen mother, what other option is there? adoption? i already explained that. Quote:
we have no idea? wrong. we do have SOME idea. if you're a poor teen mother with few family and no where else to go, chances are your baby will be flipED UP. Quote:
murderers were never born. NOTES I CONJECTURED: kester, you're a bush supporter, right? i find it ironic how he's pro life, yet giving tax cuts and buget breaks to the rich, making the poor poorer. why is that ironic? because the poorer a society is, the more likley you are to have an abortion. its been proven. here in east LA, the abortion level is like 1/7, which is pretty fliping high. (if you couldnt deduce the info, east la = poor) you see, kester, imo the reason you probably are pro-"life" is because you havent had these experiences. you're not in the position of a potential abortionists. you're not a poor teen parent, and probably you'll never have an experience remotly close to it. you dont have that bind, and you DONT know what they've been going through. you cant judge, because you've never lived what they've gone through. i have, i have some clsoe relationships with abortionists and i KNOw what they went through. its not enough to talk about things you read about but to live the things you know about. |
it just depends on what situation the people are in...
that's all there is to it.. their situations.. their desire... their decision.. nothing els to say about it.. |
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because im only 15, i CANT SUPPORT A CHILD. and neigther can most abortionists. Quote:
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the poorests areas, in the worst conditions. NOT a perfectly good baby. Quote:
obortionists, they grow up with the experiences of the neigborhood and area. its not the baby's fault you grow up in the ghetto and your mother has to be a prostatute to put cereal on the table. but hey, at least you can spend all your time in the back room huffing paint, right? :plain: Quote:
up against impossible odds. Quote:
its not the womens fault, nor the child. you're only 11, right? is it the baby's fault you cant sustain it? no. Quote:
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but more then all of those, the baby will grow up being a poor low life living off the government going bad deeds done dirt cheap. tell me the name of one great leader/person who was born in poor/ghetto environemts. cant do it, can you? i would quote and rebutalize your posts but most are just "aww... its just a baby! how sad." or just redirect already posted and rebutalized by me, or just usless and retarded. |
natured or nertured is the question here ur being sterotypical when u say someone from the streets will grow up and be a ganster or thug on the streets because thats where they came from not true u get ur rapper straight out the hood never had a cent in his name and he's now a multi millionar yeah highly not likely to happen but it does not every child born in the ghetto ends up in the streets were all different we all see the world differently and that quote i don't care where i came from what it impiles is to try u rather try then live a life with choices made for u and that relates back to the baby issue of not giving them a chance and u don't know that they'll not want to live thats their choice and most who don't want to live commit suicide by themself no need to help them out but thats up to them wether they live or not no one should have the power to rob another of life and u think i don't knowbecause i come from a good neighbor hood and stuff like that i worked for everything i got from nothing i came from nothing like everyone else and yes i know what it's like to come into close contact with abortion my sister nearly made that choice once i didn't let her my neice is the best mistake my sister ever made and it doesn't change anything some school nights i'd have to stay up till 2 am because she's crying and my sister stressed out tired of her crying but every time i look at my neice i'm glad that she's there and things weren't always all good but being a parent has it's rewards it's not an easy job but it has it's ups and downs just like life so don't tell me i don't know how it's like to come from a ghetto i came from a place thats worse then what u guys call the ghetto no stores no electricity no running water to a country i didn't speak single word of the language and i'm doing fine u live u learn u make ends meet
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Vf abortion has nothing too do with being poor...Some teen mothers that come from good wealthy families still do have abortions..Are you saying that you are against a rich person having an abortion but you are not against a poor person having an abortion?..isnt it still the same thing...Arent they both still killing a human being...If you cant give that child a good life then you put it up for adoption just so it can have a chance too live its life!...When the child is 18 he is able too leave those adoption agencies so he can start his/her own life..THE FACT OF THE MATTER IS THAT IT IS NOT RIGHT TOO ABORT A CHILD JUST BECAUSE YOU CANT SUPPORT IT SIMPLY FIND A FAMILY FOR THE CHILD BEFORE YOU HAVE IT
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u want proff of how many parents of waiting for a ####orn baby to take home u have a whole search eangine of it go ahead and search all u want i'm sure theres over thousands waiting to take home a baby be my guess to search all u want :P vf :P thoustands upond thousands :P no need for abortion
http://adoptionnetwork.com/waitingfa...cid=C13083x019 |
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hmm... i notice that had little to do with my argument and was neigther here nor there... im gonna try not to burst out into stories that have nothing to do with the topic... maybe you should follow my lead. Quote:
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is it just me or is this what people say when they realize they are too dumb to continue debating? Quote:
i saw a story on 20/20 about a family who waited 13 fliping years to get their adopted child. 13 YEARS! the dude was fliping 17 by the time the papers went through. yes, there are "thousands upon thousands". but think... how many want YOU? are they looking for a child, or are they looking for a child based on hight, weight, race, age, and so on. because i've seen a documentary stating that white children get adopted quicker then minoritys. now, think which race is the richest. white people, no? now, think which economic demographic has more abortions. minorities, no? now, if we were all to give them up for addoption, there would be many more minority children then white children, where the children are on the top of the list. not only that, but just how there are "thousands of thousands" of applicable parents, there is (as stated in the census 94,000 children needing a home. now, if we were all to give up abortions, (there is 1,200,000 fetuses aborted every year) the number would be 1,294,000 children waiting for lets say- 10,000 parents to give them a look. thats a 12:1 ratio, there are 12 children waiting for adoption for ever 1 person looking to adopt. still think we all have a place to go to when we are put into adoption? |
umm vf some families take home more then one :P so it doesn't matter if it doesn't add up a family consist of more then one child per family and as for minorities being wanted less thats not true for some families intentionally want a white baby but after spending time with a black or hispanic baby get attached so minority babies do get adopted just as much
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and as for the time consumming of taking up to 5 years and stuff not really it all depends on what agencey u go through and stuff and thats y u start before the babys even born and while the paper works being finalized the baby or kid thats being adopted is already living with their adopted parents so ur 5 year statment doesn't really matter yes adoption papers take 5 years to complete but during the process of it the kids already living a good life with the adopted family
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PLEASE, quit making up facts and start giving some PROOF. |
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