Why do ppl cheat? - Not the game...relationships..

[SuperSonicX]

Hello..all...long time no see...havent been on much...maybe since today i broke with with my gf and got nobody 2 talk 2...i'll see whats up with this forum again. But thats noy my question...my prob is that why in the heck do ppl cheat?? Long story short...i asked my gurl if she cheated on me right...? so today...we aruge...leads 2 break up..cuz of my shyness which is a stupid reason...THEN...tells me..when i freakin asked her..if she cheated...she lied and she cheated on me with her best friend! Then calls up a whole bunch of bullcrap about me not communicating...but she was wrong the whole time ny cheating! This has happend 2 me sooooo many times...im staring 2 lose faith in the opposite sex...soo...why do ppl cheat? Post our thoughts..if youcare..

[asshole]

Sonic, bro.. here's some advice from me to you, it'll always helP you in tha future!
Don't sPend too much time with someone.
At first maybe you'll want to, and it'll last for maybe a short amount of time or maybe even long such as MONTHS, but eventually your Partner will get bored of you. Even if it's a relationshiP, or a friend.
You might not care much for your friend, cuz hey.. there are always mroe friends, but your relationshiP Partner is a differeent story... Always make them think yer busy(but not too busy..) and always have somethign to do, when not hanging out with them, so he/she doesn't think yer a loser with nothing ta do.

PeoPle cheat because they get bored of tha same Person, and that's a fact.

Sonic, here read this whole story thing for me..:

Dude, believe it or not, these last 2 months have been all girl troubles for me man. I've done REALLY good at Points, where I've had it all.. but now I have NOTHING! ( Well actually, I still have a lot more being offered, but it's not what I'm wanting! )
Now, i'm seriously in lvoe with this girl, and NOW I can't have her. About 4-5 weeks ago, she wanted me, but I already had a Partner, and she wanetd me even more. And then I started wanting her, but she kissed a guy in front of me and strated ebing with him.. (I didn't care.. much.. because I still had my Partner, but I started wanting her.. and then I heard some (fake) rumors about ehr talking ish about me... and I stoPPed talking to her.. and then aftre 3 weeks she calls me uP and talks to me all about it.. and tells me hwo she wanst to be friends with me ALL OVER AGAIN! Well.. then we strated talkign and I took her to Prom, and she kissed ME.. I didn't make any move on her.. she straigth uP made out with me! And then after "After-Prom" which was at a Different Place than Prom, I take her home..a dn in her Driveway.. she Pecks me on tha LiPs and hugs me.. and after tha hug I start to make out with her. And then tha next day we talk.. and she said how she only wants to be friends.. and how that Kiss meant nothin.. it was only to make my night better! ( BITCH!! ) Well little does she know.. that i'm hurt a lot more now.. I wish she would've never even kissed me! And we talked all night last night, and she only wants to be friends... And that's not what I was hoPing for... tha bitch shuold've never kissed me!




Oh well, all I can do is.. find another Partner and try to forget about her(Which will be imPossible.. cuz this girl is somethign else to me man.. I've wanetd her for 2 years.. and one night can fuuuckk it all uP! )

[azncat]

if i were id find more info bout her than do that...dont spend much time with people of you dont know them...
she probably cheated on ya cuz she got a sick mind and got a hobby for playing with boys minds....

[asshole]

Dude, they were going out.. ofcourse they knew eachother..
But Sonic, like I just told you bro.. Don't sPend too much time with tha same Person man, eventually one or both of you WILL get tired!

[VampireNinja]

Girls are like that men,right now,ive had up to 11 gfs (yes,laugh) and their always the same..

Look,I went out with this girl called Amy (shes in my class,and ima ask her out again)..We had good times,then i had a friend called Luis.

Amy thought he was alone and all so she went to him...Then i got jealous,and yaddi yadda

And i still like Amy (shes so flipin fine :biggrin:)

[PSYCHO]

yea asshole is right .. i never stay too long sometimes a week sometimes 2 months depends if i get bored of them or i see some1 better :D

[asshole]

See man.. that's what I was saying in my story. If a girl turns you down, ou want her.. and if you turn her down, she'll want you!


Here's my way of lookin' at it.. for boys n girls!
If you want someone.. and you know they even "SORT OF" want you, or don't want you at all, but you are a Big Part of their life.. (Like you have a Class with them.. (trust me that's big)) Then here's what you do!

You try and go for tha Person, and become REAL good friends with them, and then tell them you like them, and wait for them to Reject you or give you signs or rejection, then you "PRETEND" to stoP caring for them(Notice.. PRETEND).. And watch them start liking you.. Trust me.. it works.. it's Proven, it'll work for you too.. ANYONE, who has a chance in ANY weird way..

And when they start to want YOU, that's when you show them signs of wanting them a LITTLE BIT, but also like ignoring them a bit. Like don't ignore them all tha way, to where they might think you don't like them and they feel they have nothign to try after... just Half n Half.. and then watch them want to have fuuckkking Ruffcore Sex with you!

[QUIET_KILLER]

Sonic long time no see old pal :biggrin:
Don't let her play with your head.
That is why people cheat to mess with others heads.
So stay strong be you be confident there are some.
Out there who are loyal which makes them royalty.
Some are just wrong some are just stronger.

It is also how you look at the situation.
Sides how will you fight me at your best if your busy crying?
You might make me cry if ya fight me or some else like dat.
Too be honest sonic patience is a virtue you must master.
Insert a :biggrin: over here

Sonic remember something alright.
Many people here know or some day will.
So make what you do now important make it count.
Do you want to be sonic cry baby x?
Or wow Super Sonic X guy who gets tough rough.

Wow look at his post he learned from his friends.
From his own experience and got better.
He is an inspiration he makes me want.
To be as strong as him as brave as fun.

For any one reading this post yeah you peoples.
Aka members no I am not calling him any thing bad.
I am trying if not frying on the spot.
Chizeer him up so get in here and help :biggrin:
Theres that immortal saying one for all?
And All for one!! :alien:

It also depends on what you want or who.
You want that one special verb to become.
Oh yeah zup @sshole long time no see.
Every one else good advice as well keep it up :biggrin:



Edited By QUIET_KILLER on May 17 2004 at 23:05

[azncat]

just dont give up theres a lot of better people out there :laugh:

[SuperSonicX]

lol...now this is nutz...i thought alot of time with ur partner would help i remember other gurls i went out with i didnt spend time with her and she cheated on me cuz i wasent there for her!...So what's the point??! Meh i think me+gurls= pain and hurt...for me i never ever had a stable relationship they all either cheated or some crap...but maybe im not the only one..

[milestails]

What ya said Sonic, you're not the only one having a problem with relationships... (Well, I don't have one.... At the moment at least.)
But welcome back...
To Quiet Killer: Why you copying my color? Get your own!!

[pip99]

People get bored
People get horny.


Its Human nature.

[ether]

ture very well put

[nWowolfpac]

Listen to the ppl. But also think of this. Relationship's are a waste of time cause of those reason's. You think they like you that they'll spend the rest of thier lives with you and they rip your balls off. I know. I haven't had a relationship in about a year now. And still don't care about it. Don't let it bother you. Just move on with your life. Just pu it this way. Females=Kids=Less Money To Spend=Becoming Bum=Lawsuit=Nothing. But everyone's different so they don't think the same way. Listen to what pip99 said.

[WhiteTigerClaw]

cheating = just a sad way of saying it's over.

[pip99]

Listen to what pip99 said.


You heard the man

[Iplay2win]

yea asshole is right .. i never stay too long sometimes a week sometimes 2 months depends if i get bored of them or i see some1 better :D
you're not very nice are you?

[Iplay2win]

Listen to the ppl. But also think of this. Relationship's are a waste of time cause of those reason's. You think they like you that they'll spend the rest of thier lives with you and they rip your balls off. I know. I haven't had a relationship in about a year now. And still don't care about it. Don't let it bother you. Just move on with your life. Just pu it this way. Females=Kids=Less Money To Spend=Becoming Bum=Lawsuit=Nothing. But everyone's different so they don't think the same way. Listen to what pip99 said.
all girls dont take money...and just because you have a gf doesnt mean u have to have kids

[QUIET_KILLER]

[quote:post_uid6="milestails"][color=orange:post_uid6]What ya said Sonic, you're not the only one having a problem with relationships... (Well, I don't have one.... At the moment at least.)
But welcome back...
To Quiet Killer: Why you copying my color? Get your own!![/color:post_uid6][/quote:post_uid6]
[color=maroon:post_uid6] I wasn't aware that was your current color word coding.
If I was aware that you were using.
The orange color mr miles tales :biggrin:
I would not have used it at all. :shocked:

Sonic old pal if they have not been good to you :(
Forget them then one day something awesome.
Will find you and stick with ya fo eva. :biggrin:[/color:post_uid6]

[SBYRD5]

lol...now this is nutz...i thought alot of time with ur partner would help i remember other gurls i went out with i didnt spend time with her and she cheated on me cuz i wasent there for her!...So what's the point??! Meh i think me+gurls= pain and hurt...for me i never ever had a stable relationship they all either cheated or some crap...but maybe im not the only one..

Welcome to teh 22nd century lol.

I broke up with Erica it turned out we were having some serious issues.

And like Asshole said I think I spent to much time with her.

It's not good to be around somone 24/7.

Honestily Sonic I think you tried to talk to my girl once....will give it a shot man I'm not with her anymore.

And she is fine and she was considering you and she is the long term type.

And Sonic don't give up on girls



Edited By SBYRD5 on May 18 2004 at 20:21

[milestails]

What ya said Sonic, you're not the only one having a problem with relationships... (Well, I don't have one.... At the moment at least.)
But welcome back...
To Quiet Killer: Why you copying my color? Get your own!!
I wasn't aware that was your current color word coding.
If I was aware that you were using.
The orange color mr miles tales :biggrin:
I would not have used it at all. :shocked:

Sonic old pal if they have not been good to you :(
Forget them then one day something awesome.
Will find you and stick with ya fo eva. :biggrin:
Err k...
If nobody out there suits you Sonic.... *sigh* I'm sure there is though. One doesn't guarantee to make a difference.

[azncat]

trust me theres more people out there :laugh:

[nWowolfpac]

Iplay2win:all girls dont take money...and just because you have a gf doesnt mean u have to have kids

Most of the girls in my city go out with guy's just because they have money. The odd one or two that i know don't. one's of them is my ex and i want to go back out with her but she lives in the country and i live in the city. She live's with her parents and i live with my bro and a friend. Anyways there are girls that go out with you for money and there are girls who go out for love. But the fact is that when you fall in love there is always pain that comes after it. *The pain in your heart.* When you fall in love with someone and that someone cheats or breaks up with you, you feel that pain. anyways to finish off i have a saying that my father always told me and hopefully it will help you.

There are more fish in the sea. ???

??? it's wierd i knowbut it is true.There are alot more woman out there than just her. ???



Edited By nWowolfpac on May 19 2004 at 10:47

[PSYCHO]

yea asshole is right .. i never stay too long sometimes a week sometimes 2 months depends if i get bored of them or i see some1 better :D
you're not very nice are you?
they have to know their position...
u gotsta keep it pimp ;)



Edited By PSYCHO on May 20 2004 at 01:26

[asshole]

Hahaha.. I've been talking to a whole buncha PeoPle abotu my girl Problem and here's what I've gotten so far..

" Bitches are only good for one thing.. Blowjobs, don't think any more of them man, don't get attached, "

" Feel 'em, F**k 'em, Forget 'em! "

" Girls are like 7uP, never liked it.. never will! "

And there are a few more.. They all mean.. don't let girls get to ya.. become a DICK and you'll get all tha girls.. no j0ke.. I know how it is.. just THIS girl, I'veknown her before I lost my Virginty, before I knew how to Play tha game..