What would you do if you..

[hotsexi_chic]

got rape by a guy..

kill yourself.
hunt the guy and kill him with your bare hands
call 911 for help.
tell your parent
tell your teacher
tell your friend
use work to make you forget
train yourself so there's no 2nd
do nothing but cry
none of the above
make your own answer



Edited By hotsexi_chic on 1116449882

[Dark_Paladin_X]

If i could answer that question. I would. Being that i'm a guy. Sry to hear that. :down:

But yes, if i weren't, i would probably do all that.

[hotsexi_chic]

huh?! do eveything on the list?

y would u train yourself so there's no 2nd if youjust kill yourself.
or do nothing but cry. do nothing means nothing including kill yyourself...

pls choose the one that fit best for you personlity, and make sense



Edited By hotsexi_chic on 1116450780

[Dark_Paladin_X]

huh?! do eveything on the list?

y would u train yourself so there's no 2nd if youjust kill yourself.
or do nothing but cry. do nothing means nothing including kill yyourself...

pls choose the one that fit best for you personlity, and make sense
my bad. lemme try that again

*thinks carefully* ???

The following is what i WOULDN'T DO

- kill yourself.
- do nothing but cry. (i say that cuz i've grown up trying training myself not to cry about nothing. Honest. I had older family members beat me up and stuff, trying to make me cry like every day. Another reason is i could be dead now. Won't get into it now :down: )

That's about it. I'll add on later.

[Elena]

I really don't know what I would do...and if it ever did happen to me I probably wouldn't do what I just answered...exactly or at all...

I would:
1. Go tell my friend
2. Tell my mom
3. Tell the police, I would probably tell them first depending where it took place....
4. Try to forget...black it out.
5. End up letting out my anger out on friends
6. And we mustn't forget punch something or someone....hmm, it would probably happen in between each thing I said....Like first I'd do one...then punch something...tell my mom...punch something...and so on

I would probably never:
1. Kill myself
2. Cry and do nothing else....
3. Hunt the guy down...he made me get away with my life. I don't wanna loose that too.

Oh and guys do get raped by guys....even girls....

[Razz]

I would cry. 'Cause that's how emo I am.

[SBYRD5]

I've had 8 girlfriends...... 4 of my girlfriends got raped.....ok now that's exactily half.....two of them got raped multiple times by two there own father..(maybe it's the same two)..=/

One got raped three times...

One got raped once

Two cried and told me more than she could count...*sigh*

For the most part... they all wanted to commit suicide....and they all internally discovered themselves as weak....My current girlfriend does self-mutilation.She cuts her wrist so often...I told her she might kill herself....but she cuts herself she told me she's happy then....and I told her i wouldn't leave her EVER......I'd never stop tlaking her or caring for her...but I know she has lost alot of those feelign for me due to her depression...


I told all of them....that I'd gladily kill the dude that did that to them...but they always said things like "No...i just want to forget it or...no...just leave it alone."


I felt bad about that you know...I mean when I was with them I wanted to make a sexual advance... I'd become nervious with the reality about how they would feel about me.......or just consider me a dirt for a guy....i mean...I've been through alot......more than i'll speak about int his foum again....but the hurt in her eyes...*sigh*


Would they view me as a guy that would have sex with them and take advantage of them like those dudes...that runs across my mind everytime I'm with a girl that had that experience..


so...in a way I don't....force myself on a girl that's had that sorta experience....or force myself on anyone period...


9 times out of ten when a girl get's rapped she begins to be become bisexual.....due to her fear of the other sex.

They view another female as not being as harmful....and well "safe".


You would not commonily tell someone you've been raped due to shame..being raped is like losing a fight from what I'm told..but more in depth in the view of your body and soul being tainted....


To be honest I cried for my girlfriends soul and prayed over and over.....and decided to dedicate my life to her aslong as she'd allow me to do such a thing....when they told me that...and to be real...the only thing on my mind was to protect them.......*sigh* and I guess I've been doing that poorly..

If you ahve a girlfriend that's experienced that..you will feel a sense of guilt around her always.....you'll always feel like you owe her....hmmm


If you had been raped Sexy...your not weak....

your one of the best gamers at this site...you've proved your valor...

I'm sorry a guy did that to you.....for a man to do that to a woman that man aint worth poop....


Take up martial Arts....and focus your inner rage.....that's my answer...



Edited By SBYRD5 on 1116583327

i knew there was something strange about hotsexi_chic sig...

[SBYRD5]

you know that girl in the avatar of sex's post is pretty attractive. ???

[hotsexi_chic]

I would cry. 'Cause that's how emo I am.
thank you for your condolences. i have decided to take a trip to europe to release some stress, so don't worry i won't be killing myself anytime soon.

you would cry? you r the only sensitive guy i know. most men rather die than cry.

sfo is my martial Arts. but i lose most of the time...

[Razz]

Heheh, I cried watching A Walk To Remember. The part where he hugs his dad ... yeah.



Edited By Razz on 1116630891

[Abdoun_bacK]

Be Strong madam...if i was in your case (and IAM VERY DEEPLY SORRY!!)...i wouldnt hide it, let people know so it wont happen to them, but BE STRONG..MENTALL + PHYSICALLY

razz has reached a new lvl of emo :confused:

[asshole]

Shut uP Razz, you're a Poser.
What's next for you? Hardcore? with Bandanas and girl jeans!?
BIIIATCH!

Anyway, I would DEFINETLY NOT kill myself, that'd stuPid.
But just talk to PeoPle about it, and try to forget it.
And NOT keeP thinkin about it.. or let it scar me for life.

[dominicankid098]

I am going to say something straight up and please take my advice.

You should go see a therapist, a phsycologist, some better doctor than a psycologist, whatever. I seriously think you keep bragging and bringing up your "raped" status to this forum which is not necessary at all. I have a friend, like I mentioned before, who was raped and she hates to talk about it. You bring it up like if it were the best sex you ever had. Plus now you made a topic about it. It is sad to know there are sick people out there, but bringing it up over and over is not going to solve anything, yet I doubt making topics in this forum will help you find the guy for you can hunt him down -_-". Stop bragging about this, it is not funny nor cool. I think you just want attention and sympathy.

Call me a bitch, but I just spoke the truth.

[azncat]

i would hunt the guy down spit in his mouth torcher him and then leave him in a cage for 20 years

[Dark_Paladin_X]

I am going to say something straight up and please take my advice.

You should go see a therapist, a phsycologist, some better doctor than a psycologist, whatever. I seriously think you keep bragging and bringing up your "raped" status to this forum which is not necessary at all. I have a friend, like I mentioned before, who was raped and she hates to talk about it. You bring it up like if it were the best sex you ever had. Plus now you made a topic about it. It is sad to know there are sick people out there, but bringing it up over and over is not going to solve anything, yet I doubt making topics in this forum will help you find the guy for you can hunt him down -_-". Stop bragging about this, it is not funny nor cool. I think you just want attention and sympathy.

Call me a bitch, but I just spoke the truth.
I think (in addition to what you said) she need a close friend to be there for her. Not like "oh. im so sorry" kind of friend.ike umm real close firend she can talk to about it. My friend, after she was raped, would call me at like 1am cause she was scared. I was there for her. She needs someone like that.

i was raped by this girl when i was 7...
nothing strange went on there...
she was more developed which bothered me a lot.(at that age)

[TremulantX]

i was raped by this girl when i was 7...
nothing strange went on there...
she was more developed which bothered me a lot.(at that age)
im sry to hear that ace....really, I am cuz it reminds me of that movie Derek Fisher, and it was really sad. I understand everything that sexi and you are talking about cuz my mother went thru the same things on more than 1 account, she never did anything about it tho so now she is not exactly *legally* "fully sane".......yea, it messes you up after awhile so you must do sumthing about it.......it makes you build up rage and it begins to hurt inside.....i cant remember anything from my childhood cuz my mom said i was always had to see her get beat up by my dad.........im a real macho guy but honestly......I cried when she told me this: "One time your dad hit me so hard on top of my head i had to sit on the floor and my eyes began to close up involuntarily, and then you came over and said (Don't worry mommy, It be allright..)" she said i was only three years old, im sad now.....oh, and GL in europe sexi......have fun!! yea so after she told me the many "stories" of things that had happened i just broke down, i can never see my father, grandfather, or any1 she has talked about in the same way....it just breaks me down every now and then, i dont cry.......i just get pissed at every1 else.....so take my advice guys and deal with these things the right way :(

[Elena]

I am going to say something straight up and please take my advice.

You should go see a therapist, a phsycologist, some better doctor than a psycologist, whatever. I seriously think you keep bragging and bringing up your "raped" status to this forum which is not necessary at all. I have a friend, like I mentioned before, who was raped and she hates to talk about it. You bring it up like if it were the best sex you ever had. Plus now you made a topic about it. It is sad to know there are sick people out there, but bringing it up over and over is not going to solve anything, yet I doubt making topics in this forum will help you find the guy for you can hunt him down -_-". Stop bragging about this, it is not funny nor cool. I think you just want attention and sympathy.

Call me a bitch, but I just spoke the truth.
Lordy lordy, I'm going to get a psychology minor and I'm in a college psychology and let me tell you something, not everyone acts the same. Although some people may turn away from people and never speak of being raped because they prefer not to. Another girl may go around sleeping with guys because she claim it gave her power she lost when she was being raped. So, you see not all girls act the same when they feel the same. For example when you like a girl you may become an introvert when naturally you are a extrovert when another boy likes another girl he may act like extrovert when he natrually is a introvert.

Sure, she shouldn't of really came on a forum because somebody might of tried to take advantage of her. But she might of felt lost at the time and had no idea what to do so she did this. I don't believe she is bragging I think she's just a bit confused and lost.

I hope this helped and I know you were trying to help her but remember we are not all the same and we don't deal with things the same way other people do.

[dominicankid098]

I am sorry but that still doesn't excuse the fact that she has used "men" as a stereotype for the past week. At the same time it does not excuse her from making topics and posting it up everywhere, because really, getting raped isn't something worth bragging. And yes she is bragging about it and parading it throughout the forum like if it were the best sex she ever had. What she is doing is something like "Oh, look at me. I got raped and guess what?! Men suck. And you men in sfo, suck too"

The more she keeps bringing it up, the more I start to beleive that she didn't get raped. I had a friend that got raped when she was 6. You had to be a really REALLY sick minded dude to kidnap a child after leaving their class just to rape them. The one time she brought up her situation to talk it over with me, she was in tears, plus she hates to bring it up.

Sometimes you think, "Hmm, me getting raped? Nah that can't ever happen. That only happens to these sort of people.", but when reality slaps you in the face and it happens to you, you wouldn't be bragging about it and bringing it up every chance you get, I don't find that theraputic nor would I think anyone would find that theraputic (you would have to be as sick as the rapist to do so).

She might be lost, but that is what close family and friends are for, plus didn't she say she is going to england? There you go, go enjoy life every chance you get. Don't come here and use "men" as a direct comment to everything, because not all men rape people.
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And you are getting a PHd is psychology? That is cool my aunt is getting the same degree but I keep telling her "I don't get it, you are the most stressed out person in the world and you want to become a psychologist? You, yourself, need to see some type of hardcore psychologist." But she laughs about it. =)



Edited By dominicankid098 on 1116697778

[Razz]

Shut uP Razz, you're a Poser.
What's next for you? Hardcore? with Bandanas and girl jeans!?
BIIIATCH!
It's funny 'cause that was a joke and you're all like, "I'm get'n all serious about this." But I'm all like, "Why you so serious?" But you're all like, "I'm get'n all serious about this!"
Why you so serious?

And hey, I do have a pair of chick pants.



Edited By Razz on 1116825595

[asshole]

Shut uP Razz, you're a Poser.
What's next for you? Hardcore? with Bandanas and girl jeans!?
BIIIATCH!
It's funny 'cause that was a joke and you're all like, "I'm get'n all serious about this." But I'm all like, "Why you so serious?" But you're all like, "I'm get'n all serious about this!"
Why you so serious?

And hey, I do have a pair of chick pants.
Of course you have a Pair of girl Pants.. that's whats COOL now!

Razz, you should know damn well that i'm fk'in with ya!
I just love Pickin on scene kids like you!

There's not many kids uP-to-date with tha Rock scene on here, and you and Skate919 and Weezer are tha only few.. so I HAVE to Pick on somebody.. ;]

I used to go to tha same shows like 3-4 years ago, and it was like 50 PeoPle toPs.. now all tha kdis that were listenign to POP PUNK /EMO when that was cool are all into this now.. BOO ON YA!


Anyway, HotSexi_Chic, I told you to not bring this uP again.. it would be bad idea.. ;[

[hotsexi_chic]

I am sorry but that still doesn't excuse the fact that she has used "men" as a stereotype for the past week. At the same time it does not excuse her from making topics and posting it up everywhere, because really, getting raped isn't something worth bragging. And yes she is bragging about it and parading it throughout the forum like if it were the best sex she ever had. What she is doing is something like "Oh, look at me. I got raped and guess what?! Men suck. And you men in sfo, suck too"

The more she keeps bringing it up, the more I start to beleive that she didn't get raped. I had a friend that got raped when she was 6. You had to be a really REALLY sick minded dude to kidnap a child after leaving their class just to rape them. The one time she brought up her situation to talk it over with me, she was in tears, plus she hates to bring it up.

Sometimes you think, "Hmm, me getting raped? Nah that can't ever happen. That only happens to these sort of people.", but when reality slaps you in the face and it happens to you, you wouldn't be bragging about it and bringing it up every chance you get, I don't find that theraputic nor would I think anyone would find that theraputic (you would have to be as sick as the rapist to do so).

She might be lost, but that is what close family and friends are for, plus didn't she say she is going to england? There you go, go enjoy life every chance you get. Don't come here and use "men" as a direct comment to everything, because not all men rape people.
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And you are getting a PHd is psychology? That is cool my aunt is getting the same degree but I keep telling her "I don't get it, you are the most stressed out person in the world and you want to become a psychologist? You, yourself, need to see some type of hardcore psychologist." But she laughs about it. =)
cuz ur frd ga rapt noz u. da's y shi no tall 2 u bout it. same here. i dint tell my frds and famiy but i came here cuz i dont no any1 here. cuz you like ur frds and family that 's y you don't wanna hurt them. like you said if it hasn't happend to u you won't no, so don't talk like u actually no just cuz you heard stories.

i wasn't braggin'. i was asking for your opinion, which is the "topic" of this thread(thyou for stayingon topic and thyou for your comments). you made it sound like i kept posting over and over and over, even after u had commented my posts as braggin'. pls check the date on my other posts and this one.

you'll notice they are the same dateso i wasn't trying to keep bringing up after u had told me to not bring this uP again, nor am i trying to bragging again and again. then if you have noticed, i haven't posted since biggie. som1 is making me come back and post...

and the "men" quote, like i said, i say that all the time, even b4 i got rpt. is my sig. it 's my recalition. it's my persoall ID. and y did you say "and you men in sfo..." now you are admitting u are men even thou you had said"There is no "men" in sfo. There are boys, some over the age of 18, yet still boys. No one here is grown up enough to consider themselves "men". I am 18 and I still say I am a kid. If anyone here were to think of themself like that, then their lives must be boring. " so are you admitting i was talking about you ?
like blanka said, you are jumping to conclusion. the quote wasn't finished. it could b anything after that, and you assumed it's something dirty.. pls get your mind out of the trash can.. the rest of the quote could be"men...always win and i always lose no matter how hard i try" :cry: :huh: :butbut: :down: :down:



Edited By hotsexi_chic on 1116958105

[dominicankid098]

Still bragging. You even got the thing on your sig. Seriously, go seek help. And btw, your last paragraph did not make any sense at all. If you have read anything I posted, you would have realized I quoted something you would say. But nooooo, you didn't read nor tried to understand. Why?? For you can continue to be ignorant and come up with a lame excuse as a reason of why you keep bragging and knocking out "men". Admitting what? LMAO.

I can link you to several topics where you say something like "Men always get what they want..", "men..", "Men..", "men...", repeat x20.

I don't beleive your story. Sorry but I can't find a way to beleive the story. You are just trying to make everyone have some sympathy for you. Thank god I am not too lame to fall for this. I even forsaw you making a topic about getting raped. After continuosly talking about it in other topics, it would not even be shocking if you actually made this topic. Ironic? Maybe.

[Virtual Fighter]

hotsexi_chic, you know what you should do? Become a crazy femenist like me.

Down with men and their evil penis's of death!

[blanka09]

Lol.. now forgive my initial laughter, but ladyy... you're just a few months older than my younger sister.. and if she were raped, the last place I'd want her to get any "advice" is an online forum filled with 75% of kids who are just entering puberty. And looking back at my biggie topic, I'd have to sayy everything adds up... but honestly, the signature thingy ?? I think you might be hanging up on the situation in the wrong scenario.

In all honesty, I don't know why a man would rape a 15 year old... but from what I've seen in life, I won't put it past some sick fools. What you SHOULD do is go to ur God (if you have one) and pray. You're 15, therefore you have the brain developed enough to search urself and find a reason as to why it happened. Whatever we face in life's a result of Karma. In the sense that what you get in life is a result of action/inactions you've taken in the past.

Kinda like the first rule of Alchemy, called equivalent trade.

After searching within urself and finding the reasons as to why it happened... and how you might have played a role (be it the way you dress, where you hang out, who you hang out and the likes) in the whole incident. If you're true to urself, you'll find out an answer. Correct that wrong loophole in ur life and move on.

Talk to ur parents about it... I can't imagine the pain I'd feel if I find out my sister or if I had a daughter and learnt she was raped. It'll tear them apart, so try and least assure them that you're okay and you're not going to kill urself anytime soon :biggrin: ... and I'm sure they'll have some advice for you. Finally don't go around publicly displaying this ID as one that's been raped. It doesn't help solve the problem... unfortunately, it brings a very bad label on u urself.

People would label you as being something/someone you aren't because a man saw the reason to rape you, though you're only 15. Try not to reenact the scenario in ur mind, to ur friends in school or the Street Fighter Online forum anymore.

Of course, everything I've said would be based on the fact that you're not messing with us and you're actually being honest to us that you were raped. Kinda like SBYRD5's topic on Axe and his socalled "death". I can't be 100% certain and gullible as to what most members on this forum would sayy because I do NOT know any of u in the real world, therefore, stories that hit THIS close to home can never be swallowed completely by yours sincerely :biggrin:

That's basically all I have to sayy... and one more thing though; if this really happened, there's something else you should be more worried about. Are u sure you're not ... pregnant o_0 ??



Edited By blanka09 on 1116963059

[Razz]

Of course you have a Pair of girl Pants.. that's whats COOL now!

Razz, you should know damn well that i'm fk'in with ya!
I just love Pickin on scene kids like you!

There's not many kids uP-to-date with tha Rock scene on here, and you and Skate919 and Weezer are tha only few.. so I HAVE to Pick on somebody.. ;]

I used to go to tha same shows like 3-4 years ago, and it was like 50 PeoPle toPs.. now all tha kdis that were listenign to POP PUNK /EMO when that was cool are all into this now.. BOO ON YA!


Anyway, HotSexi_Chic, I told you to not bring this uP again.. it would be bad idea.. ;[
Haha, actually, I'm not into "the scene" or anything. I've been to a few shows, but it's not a regular thing for me. I just listen to what I listen to and play what I wanna play. :blues:

On topic: It's really sad that all these people on the boards have had experiences (or loved ones had experiences) with rape. It's way too common nowadays ...

[Virtual Fighter]

flip everyone but me.

Here's what you REALLY should do:

Report it to the police, and tell EVERYONE. Become a self centered femenist asshole who hates men. Make a plot to blow up the white house.

See? Simple as that. Remember, it's not your fault, it's the government's fault.

NO WAIT, it's GOD'S fault. Blow up a church.

[dominicankid098]

That's basically all I have to sayy... and one more thing though; if this really happened, there's something else you should be more worried about. Are u sure you're not ... pregnant o_0 ??
Don't give her ideas of new topics to make. Edit your post quickly before she starts a topic like "What would you do if you found out you got pregnant after being raped?"



Edited By dominicankid098 on 1116990843

[Razz]

That topic would rawk. I'd post in it.

[SBYRD5]

Hotsexi should've made her topic in the general section....

In all seriousness....man alot of you dudes really let the bastard out in this thread....

But it is posted in the R.I. section so whether tot ake this topic seriousily or not can't be defined...

[hotsexi_chic]

Lol.. now forgive my initial laughter, but ladyy... you're just a few months older than my younger sister.. and if she were raped, the last place I'd want her to get any "advice" is an online forum filled with 75% of kids who are just entering puberty. And looking back at my biggie topic, I'd have to sayy everything adds up... but honestly, the signature thingy ?? I think you might be hanging up on the situation in the wrong scenario.

In all honesty, I don't know why a man would rape a 15 year old... but from what I've seen in life, I won't put it past some sick fools. What you SHOULD do is go to ur God (if you have one) and pray. You're 15, therefore you have the brain developed enough to search urself and find a reason as to why it happened. Whatever we face in life's a result of Karma. In the sense that what you get in life is a result of action/inactions you've taken in the past.

Kinda like the first rule of Alchemy, called equivalent trade.

After searching within urself and finding the reasons as to why it happened... and how you might have played a role (be it the way you dress, where you hang out, who you hang out and the likes) in the whole incident. If you're true to urself, you'll find out an answer. Correct that wrong loophole in ur life and move on.

Talk to ur parents about it... I can't imagine the pain I'd feel if I find out my sister or if I had a daughter and learnt she was raped. It'll tear them apart, so try and least assure them that you're okay and you're not going to kill urself anytime soon :biggrin: ... and I'm sure they'll have some advice for you. Finally don't go around publicly displaying this ID as one that's been raped. It doesn't help solve the problem... unfortunately, it brings a very bad label on u urself.

People would label you as being something/someone you aren't because a man saw the reason to rape you, though you're only 15. Try not to reenact the scenario in ur mind, to ur friends in school or the Street Fighter Online forum anymore.

Of course, everything I've said would be based on the fact that you're not messing with us and you're actually being honest to us that you were raped. Kinda like SBYRD5's topic on Axe and his socalled "death". I can't be 100% certain and gullible as to what most members on this forum would sayy because I do NOT know any of u in the real world, therefore, stories that hit THIS close to home can never be swallowed completely by yours sincerely :biggrin:

That's basically all I have to sayy... and one more thing though; if this really happened, there's something else you should be more worried about. Are u sure you're not ... pregnant o_0 ??
thank you blanka for staying on topic and your good comment.

but y would i be pregnant...?

I still don't no y dominicankid098 still keep saying i am bragging. i am not bragging. im just asking for your opinion about rape in general. i wasn't raped in real life... i was asking for your opinion about rape ....i don't y you have to keep saying i am bragging about asking for comments on rape....thank you for those who stayed on topic and didn't just post so that they can insult me.

okay let me clear up my sig for you..
getting rape by men=getting beaten by men or own by men.. this is talking about how i was beaten when i fought in sfo...i have to work harder so i can defen myself=this is talkinga bout how i have to train my chunli so i can defen myself against men cuz most ppl who beat me/rape me are men... .most men don't take me serious and think of me as an internet hooker=after they rape/own me they often say im a slut or a hooker so i have to prove to them they are wrong..


the reason i was asking your opinions is becaues of the girl who got rape on campus and i did more reserach on rape and i found and i read this article below...it was really disturbing(not meant fro lil kids)
and i was shocked by it so i wanted to ask for your opinion about rape. well, at least SBYRD5 nos this is just radom instantwarning: not meant for lil kids (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Nanjing_massacre#Rape)

i recently read an article about these "conform women" ,who got raped by over 30,000 men each day, they are coming out now, and they are telling everyone their stories. so dominicankid, it dep on person whether they speak out or not. there no absolute yes for anything



Edited By hotsexi_chic on 1117215383

[Dark_Paladin_X]

aiight. I really thought u were. Got a lil worried :D Good thing no one here wasn't raped.

Well.... i read all the posts. I read your link hotsexi. Pretty disturbing and i just wanted to say that this thread definetly does belong in the RaNdOm iNsAnItY section. :huh2: