My question...like a confession? - Please answer accordingily..

[SBYRD5]

Well I have this friend....well it's a she....and she is sorta my best friend.....and well my past girlfriend...

I sorta turned my back on her a few times...no I did turn my back on her....I put her through alot of pain...that wasn't necassary....

I'm an idoit..and I don't know how to make amends....I'm asking for help...on both knees.....I guess...

[PENZEL]

ever tried talking to her dude?be honest and shiit...

[Virtual Fighter]

why are you telling us?

it seems like a conffession of which we would know what you're talking about.

is it advice you want?

If so, then just talk to her. talking is good, even if it's angry, or sad, or happy.

[_dmx_]

Another one of them thread =/..

There are plenty of fishes in the sea

[alamgir]

One word..."Sorry"

[PENZEL]

Another one of them thread =/..

There are plenty of fishes in the sea
yes but their not the same girls u know =/

[68-1093009699]

Well i feel ur pain.................. i was burned too............................................... ..... well the first thing you have to do is get out of the house... go to a friends house have fun, you know to let the pain out... then you gather all the courage you have and call her to say "i'm sorry" it sounds corny but just bear with me........ then after you say sorry to her she'll come over to 'talk" ...... then minuites later you'll be rolling all over the bed making out and she'll take her bra off and..............she.............................. .................. well that's how it worked for me.......... good times, goood times :cool:

[_dmx_]

Another one of them thread =/..

There are plenty of fishes in the sea
yes but their not the same girls u know =/
It doesn't matter he had his chance he blew it. If he keeps getting upset, best thing to do is move on.

[PENZEL]

ur right dude but u should know it aint easy man..u got to understand his part...it aint a walk in the park

[68-1093009699]

well you know pimpin aint easy.... for you guy's.......

[devilsoul]

talk to her , be honest , maybe try saying sorry to see if it has any effect

[azncat]

why not just stop ???

[`Crystal]

Tell her everything she wants to know..talk to her nicely not angrily

[SBYRD5]

I couldn't just let her go you see...

Because in a view it's like this....

I left her with to much pain....sure if I didn't care for her and only wanted her for her ass...then yeah she would be forgotten..like this chick at my job..

but it wasn't like that....not close....

Sorta liek a sister...who was a girlfriend...odd thing to esplain...it's like hurting family...you don't do that....

Yeah about calling her....she basicily gave me the hint...hell no.....even though she just said "nope"

....man...lol I'm going to pray..

[Elena]

why not just stop ???
We know u've nerver been in love.

best thing to do is move on.

You act like it so easy to give up love. Love is not a like an empty bottle which you easily can just throw away.

[blossom]

she is sorta my best friend.....and well my past girlfriend...
stop there, the two dont mix. you cant revert back to best friends after being bf & gf or the other way around.

[SBYRD5]

So what am I to her..?

If it can never be reverted..that's fine...I'd gadily be her lover....it doesn't matter....



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[blossom]

[quote:post_uid6="SBYRD5"][color=#000000:post_uid6]I'd gadily be her lover.[/color:post_uid6][/quote:post_uid6]
[color=#FF0000:post_uid6]maybe she'd gladly be just a friend[/color:post_uid6]

[SBYRD5]

she is sorta my best friend.....and well my past girlfriend...
stop there, the two dont mix. you cant revert back to best friends after being bf & gf or the other way around.
That's not true....best friend do hook up...

and if she'll allow me to be her friend then I'd be satisfied being her friend..

[blossom]

That's not true....best friend do hook up...
and there friendship is never the same again....

ps my connection to inklink keeps failing, if you dont see me on atleast i gave u an explaination

[SBYRD5]

My connection to ink link failed aswell.... :down:

[`Crystal]

I feel sorry for u.. i usaully have somthin to say in this kinda situation ..but this 1 , i dont kn whut to say

[island_chick]

well thers good times n bad in a relationship of any sort....but if youknw wut ur doing wrong...thn u can avoid it next time...but thn again its totally up to u whether u want to or not...but seriously i wud just move on rather thn hurtin thm agin n agin!

[Saijin_Ryu]

stop there, the two dont mix. you cant revert back to best friends after being bf & gf or the other way around.
Who says? I have, many times.

[PENZEL]

stop there, the two dont mix. you cant revert back to best friends after being bf & gf or the other way around.
Who says? I have, many times.
yes u can blossom...but one thing is that u guys be best friend anybody can do that but the other thing is that "IF" u acept thos terms


Sbyrd dude...as painfull as it is...just forgive and forget man..start new chapter or something..maybe if youdo that good things will come to ur life u never know..but if youkeep hitting ur self on the head with that...u'll never acomplish anything.Yes u did REALLY BAD this time...but look at it this way...u learned from ur mistake i know now u got to live with it but dude i think ur older enough to realize that u need to suck it up and go on with watever ur doing,i know it aint a walk in the park like i said b4 but trying wont kill anybody know wat i mean?so i dunno man just chill..talk to her if things don't go the way u wanted to go...the only important thing was that u tried ur best to work shiit out...cuz only a few have the B-A-L-L-S to even talk to a girl....but that's just how i c it...nobody does ur descions..

[blossom]

[color=#FF0000:post_uid6]lol trust me they dont mix. if they did James wouldnt be having this problem. None of you guys know what its like to have a guy wanna be your friend after breaking up with you. thats just BS sometimes and it makes you not wanna be around them. it is true that you can go from friends to having a relationship but it doesnt just happen lol. believe me, if one of your chica friends wanna go out with you she was probably thinking of doing so from the start.[/color:post_uid6]

[Ludacris]

well Blossom's right but not in all cases......... my best friend, who was born on the same day as me, we went out 2gether then broke up and we still are the bestes of friends...... now I don't know how we did but we did

now James, look man, in your situation, the chances ofuand her hooking up again as friend, I'd say are close to 0 but just don't ignore her and never talk to her again, nah that's cowardly, even if she says she doesn't wanna see u or hear u ever again, pure BS....... what U do is talk to her one on one.......

if she doesn't wanna, be a man, make her listen to U, if she starts walkin, walk behind her and all...... and talk at the same time, it will seem like she ain't listenin to U but she is, tell her eveything U have on your mind (that has to do with U and her lol) and that's it......

she'll eventually talk to U back or tell U that it can't be like before and then U try to move one...... that's the way I did it and it worked for me :)

P.S: I'm serious, it worked for me

[SBYRD5]

well Blossom's right but not in all cases......... my best friend, who was born on the same day as me, we went out 2gether then broke up and we still are the bestes of friends...... now I don't know how we did but we did

now James, look man, in your situation, the chances ofuand her hooking up again as friend, I'd say are close to 0 but just don't ignore her and never talk to her again, nah that's cowardly, even if she says she doesn't wanna see u or hear u ever again, pure BS....... what U do is talk to her one on one.......

if she doesn't wanna, be a man, make her listen to U, if she starts walkin, walk behind her and all...... and talk at the same time, it will seem like she ain't listenin to U but she is, tell her eveything U have on your mind (that has to do with U and her lol) and that's it......

she'll eventually talk to U back or tell U that it can't be like before and then U try to move one...... that's the way I did it and it worked for me :)

P.S: I'm serious, it worked for me
but ludacris you got pimp fluid..and 4 post till masters...J/K

Nah ummm I am I wont stop talking to her...wouldn't be right...she aint got to be my woman....hate to hurt girls...

Because the majority of women I tlak to tell me thier life story...and it's usually..depressing....

Then I feel like I owe them well a section of my heart...

Nah I'm about grown man..I wont die over it...I just want her to know it meant something real to me...that's all

The relationship got to the point...we liked each other....but we easily annoyed each other...I guess?

Yeah....just hope she's smiling..yah.

As for me..I goes I'll just have to pimp on...something..of the sort.. :eh:

niegh!!!!!!! :Oo:

[PENZEL]

well Blossom's right but not in all cases......... my best friend, who was born on the same day as me, we went out 2gether then broke up and we still are the bestes of friends...... now I don't know how we did but we did

now James, look man, in your situation, the chances ofuand her hooking up again as friend, I'd say are close to 0 but just don't ignore her and never talk to her again, nah that's cowardly, even if she says she doesn't wanna see u or hear u ever again, pure BS....... what U do is talk to her one on one.......

if she doesn't wanna, be a man, make her listen to U, if she starts walkin, walk behind her and all...... and talk at the same time, it will seem like she ain't listenin to U but she is, tell her eveything U have on your mind (that has to do with U and her lol) and that's it......

she'll eventually talk to U back or tell U that it can't be like before and then U try to move one...... that's the way I did it and it worked for me :)

P.S: I'm serious, it worked for me
but ludacris you got pimp fluid..and 4 post till masters...J/K

Nah ummm I am I wont stop talking to her...wouldn't be right...she aint got to be my woman....hate to hurt girls...

Because the majority of women I tlak to tell me thier life story...and it's usually..depressing....

Then I feel like I owe them well a section of my heart...

Nah I'm about grown man..I wont die over it...I just want her to know it meant something real to me...that's all

The relationship got to the point...we liked each other....but we easily annoyed each other...I guess?

Yeah....just hope she's smiling..yah.

As for me..I goes I'll just have to pimp on...something..of the sort.. :eh:

niegh!!!!!!! :Oo:
*biitch slaps u*nigger....

[Ludacris]

what the hell?! what U meant by that comment Penzel?!........

and yup, don't give up till U know it's hopeless....... and yeah, I'ma be a master soon...... or will I really be?! ???

[PENZEL]

and yup, don't give up till U know it's hopeless....... and yeah, I'ma be a master soon...... or will I really be?!

exactly..y i slapped him..cuz he can't give up...or else it's gonna be a harder slap